Manhattan, New York - TODAY, Oct 21 - Thursday Oct 22. A very last minute trip! Ask me about it in person!

Albuquerque, New Mexico - Oct 29 - Nov 3. Two hour minimum!

New Haven, Connecticut - Nov 10 - 11

Boston, Massachusetts - Nov 11 - 12

Nashville, Tennessee - Nov 20 - 22

If you’d like to connect in any of these cities please complete the booking form on my website. If we’re already acquainted, feel free to email me, AlexaEason@protonmail.com, to arrange a date!

xo!

First on the docket - my semiannual pilgrimage to the Northeast!

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Feeling a little jealous that I’m so frequently in the Northeast? Well, I’m happy to let you know that I will be available in…

Minneapolis, MN June 11-30, where I’ll be offering duos with fellow curvy provocateur, Molly Lane, and the deliciously beautiful, TS Dana North.

San Francisco Bay Area July 24-28! Duos available with Dahlia Snow and Delphine Mason.

Hopefully, dear reader, you and I will get to see each other in the near future! If you’re miffed that I’m not visiting your city - bring me to you! Or you’re always welcome to visit me in Philadelphia.

Until next time!

xo, Alexa

“Next year I could be just as good
If you check off my Christmas list”

Eartha Kitt, “Santa Baby”

I love holidays and I especially love Christmas, but as I’ve gotten older I’ve learned that it’s a controversial stance. I can’t blame people for hating on this holiday - it’s been corrupted by rampant consumerism, Christian fundamentalism, and one-up-manship. Not to mention, it can be a very lonely time of year for many. If this has previously been your take, I ask you to consider the following: sparkling strands of lights in the crisp winter air, singing along to almost every song on the radio, camaraderie with fellows, gag gifts, and snuggling under a cozy blanket with hot cocoa. Sounds better right? Christmas is what you make it and this year I opted to cultivate a little joy with a Christmas photo shoot inspired by Eartha Kitt’s classic carol, “Santa Baby.” After all, she is an icon of getting exactly what she desires and so am I. Follow along…

Keeping an eye out for my devoted, subby Santa to hurry down the chimney.

My leather clad Santa did in fact slip a sable under the tree. For me!

I didn’t have to wait up for this ‘54 convertible in light blue or the subsequent yacht!

He looks so good on his knees presenting the one little thing I really need - the deed to a platinum mine!!

Now I’m just waiting for you to come and trim my tree!

Oh and last thing, a ring, and I don’t mean on the phone. I mean the ringing sound my CashApp makes when you send some holiday cheer and the email notifications I get from my wish list! So will you be my devoted Santa baby? Will you hurry down the chimney tonight? I sure hope so 💋

xo,

Alexa

PS - I’ll be back in Minneapolis January 7-11! Email me to book - AlexaEason@protonmail.com.

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Unfortunately, social media platforms do not care about our connection or our authenticity. All platforms have become increasingly conservative about the material that’s allowed and their terms of service contracts are longer than a CVS receipt. The ban hammer falls heavy on the accounts of anyone having fun, including myself.

About a month ago I lost yet another Instagram account, my fourth one in 10 years. It hurt to lose my material, to watch my hard work disappear, but the most painful aspect was losing connections to so many of you and to so many of my fellow sexy workers. I had that account for nearly 3 years and built a following of 13,000+ fans and friends and it hurts because the reason for my deletion was that I am now just too hot for the internet. I’m too scantily clad, too sexual, too brazen, too bold. But I refuse to shrink myself in any way and so I’m asking you to find me on all the accounts that I’m still holding on to - let’s connect despite their efforts:

• Instagram (Though, I’ve lost a lot of interest in spending time on this one.)

• X/Twitter (Posting regularly and demurely.)

• BlueSky (We’ll see how it goes.)

• Fetlife (Hoping for less censorship here.)

• My Blog (It’s collecting cobwebs right now, but I plan to dust it off very soon.)

• OnlyFans (Direct, regular communication with me and some of my more provocative content. However, the TOS is abysmal. A lot of my fetish content is not allowed and you can not message me about in person dates, or else.)

Luckily, Substack seems to be holding down the fort on engaging, long form content, takes me back to my LiveJournal days and as such I intend to be here more regularly.

Interested in connecting in person, or as I like to call it - meat space?

I’ll be visiting Minneapolis November 6-8 with fellow good time girl Lilith Golde. Then I’ll be in Chicago November 10-12 and available with, Lilith, , and . I’ll be eager to stave off the Midwestern chill so let’s get that blood pumping and pooling in all the right places.

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Stay tuned as this space begins to transform…

xo, Alexa

The last time you heard from your fair enchantress, I was wishing you a Happy New Year. Since then, the world’s turned a few times, and I’ve got so much to share—so let’s jump in.

I spent much of the winter cozied up, but even in the chill there was no shortage of indulgence and hedonism. I celebrated my birthday with a quiet weekend in a cabin in the Poconos: watching clouds roll by, taking snowy walks along the river, and grazing on my favorite snacks. In late January, I had the absolute pleasure of being whisked away to Opera Philadelphia to see The Anonymous Lover—a gorgeously dramatic romantic comedy composed by Joseph Bologne, Chevalier de Saint-Georges. A contemporary of Mozart and a brilliant Black composer whose work is often overlooked, Bologne’s opera was a revelation. I left utterly enchanted, and with a brand new opera fixation.

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Valentine’s Day was its own kind of magic. I shared heart-shaped pizza and a perfect sunset over the Philadelphia skyline with the sweetest lover—and later, experienced the deeply satisfying intimacy of stretching said lover’s hole to accommodate my entire fist. There’s something spiritual in acts like that, don’t you think?

I also rekindled an old flame: my online fan club. I’ve been filming fresh content for my clip stores and rediscovering the joy of performing in front of the camera. Curious about what drew me back in? There are four reasons — plus a special surprise waiting for you right here.

And now, I’m already dreaming of what’s next. I just wrapped up a stunning new photoshoot (stay tuned!) and I’ll be returning to the Northeast soon. Here’s where to find me:

Garden City, NY – May 21–22
Boston, MA – May 22–23
Portland, ME – May 23–25
Manchester, NH – May 25–27
New Haven, CT – May 27–28
Providence, RI – May 28–30

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A Recent Rave Review

“I’ve been dreaming of playing with someone who could show me equal parts care and sadism, and I found that in Alexa. The energy that quickly emerged and ran through our entire scene was delightfully buoyant, with ample space for playful banter and belly laughs—a gleefully subversive middle finger to the apparent grittiness of chain on flesh and needles the size of straws. I’m so thankful to Alexa for her trust, her open-mindedness, the laughter we shared, and for making me feel so strong.” -R

Until next time,
Alexa

As you may know, January is my birth month! The exact day is January 24th and if you’re inspired to show your love and adoration - my wishlist is here 💋

If you’d like to celebrate with me in person I’ll be available in Philadelphia and I’m making a special trip to DC January 16-18. Let’s get together!

As we move into a new year I’ve been scheming about how to craft even more fulfilling experiences and I’m thrilled to say that in 2025 I’ll be offering sessions in a fully equipped dungeon in Philadelphia! The space is quite impressive and has a several different themed rooms to ensure an immersive experience where you can fully sink into your fantasy. Imagine - me as your demanding, yet sensual professor or your naughty nurse - oh, the possibilities!

Until next time,

Alexa

If you like the looks of plus size, latex clad Elvira, rumor has it that her enormous uh…ratings are on display here.

Get a load of Elvira's headlights!

Let’s continue this trend of absolutely perfect dates while I’m in Chicago 11/12-15. I haven’t been to the City of Big Shoulders in a few years and I’d love a reintroduction. I’ll be hosting downtown, with the option for a full dungeon or an upscale apartment

Let's get blown away in the Windy CIty

I’m beyond thrilled to offer many duos with some of my most favorite people and biggest internet crushes:

Become entranced during a delightfully deviant double domme session with fellow plus size, tattooed goddess- Lilith Golde

Let’s turn up the heat with the creative, sultry, goofy Mistress of Flavortown - Josie Qu

It’s thrilling to know that the curvy, kissable companion, Sophia Robey, will be back from her hiatus just in time for my visit!

If you love curves, you should absolutely get between Ava Adore and myself! The soft, voluptuousness of our embrace is heaven on Earth.

For years, I’ve been dreaming of playing with sensual switch and all around sweetheart, Daffnie Kline. Join us for a blissful escape!

And it simply needs to be said - imagine a group scene with all of us! Literally what dreams are made of! To plan a solo date with me, a duo, or a group session (please!), submit your information through my booking form. If we’re already acquainted, feel free to email me at AlexaEason@protonmail.com.

Until next time,

Alexa

• Topping for a very evil genitorture needle scene - blood splatter and a security check in means we really had a good time. I wish you could see the looks on people’s faces!

• Top-In-Charge of the fisting g*ng b*ng.

• Exercising my creativity with a perfectly pink needle art scene, complete with ribbon and bows.

• Gallivanting in my leather!

I’d love to say more, but these stories are just too hot for Substack. Book a date and I’ll enchant you with the finer details and more photos!

I need to know more!

Now that I’m back in Philly I’ve set my sights on the reason for the season - Halloween!  It’s one of my favorite holidays and I’d love to celebrate it with you. Here are my date ideas for the month of October followed by my current calendars for October and November (psst…see you soon Chicago):

🕯️ Candlelit Concert - Select dates - A string quartet performing Halloween-inspired music at Laurel Hill Cemetery under the gentle glow of candlelight. This show will take us through a haunted candlelit walk through a historic cemetery, ending in a spectacular show!

🎞️ Philadelphia Film Festival - October 17-27 - Hosted by Philadelphia Film Society, more than 100 films in over 10 days! Throughout the year, the PFS team scouts global film festivals – from Sundance to Berlin, Cannes to Toronto – to curate a selection of the year’s most highly anticipated, critically acclaimed, and thought-provoking films. 

🎃 Pumpkin picking and hayrides - All month - Literally one of my favorite fall activities. Think warm apple cider, my voluptuous breast bouncing on the hayride, getting “lost” and making out in the corn maze, and checking out my awe inspiring assets while I’m bending over to inspect pumpkins - a dream come true!

👻 Kitschy Halloween themed bar night - all month -  A bar in Philly’s Midtown Village becomes completely transformed into a comically creepy monster haven filled with befitting cocktails and decor. Let’s cuddle up in a dark corner and I’ll practice my vampire impersonation by nibbling on your neck. 

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✨ Show up with an open mind.

Open yourself up to possibility! There are many ways to experience pleasure and pain and you’re missing out if you will only accept these gifts in one specific way. I’m a professional for a reason - let me guide you. 

✨ Be ready to have fun.

Many people make BDSM a very serious game, but that’s just not my style. Sure, there’s a place for focus, concentration, and precision, but that doesn’t mean we have to be cold and rigid all the time. Let’s finger paint flowers with blood, assign silly protocols and trigger words, and do impact with rubber chickens (shout out to Yaz 💋)! Let’s laugh and have fun, because if it’s not fun - why are we doing it? 

✨ Appreciate me for who I am.

It may sound obvious, but I want lovers and friends who want to see me for me. Not who they want me to be or who they think I should be. I’m unique and the connections and experiences I curate are special. If you’re searching for a kinky vending machine, move along. I’m interested in building something exciting and new with you, not conforming to narrow concepts of domination or plus size women. 

 ✨ Be generous. 

Obviously, part of this is about your wallet, which I’d love to drain😘, but it’s also about being generous with your heart. Being vulnerable and compassionate makes for deeper, more fulfilling connections in all kinds of relationships and this one is no different. Be generous with who you are, let me celebrate that with you, and watch our connection grow exponentially. 

✨ Follow instructions. 

It’s not hard to spend time with me, but some people make it difficult. There is a very simple path to follow - cooperate with my minimal screening process, respect my time, and make a deposit. That’s it! Speaking of, here’s the link now - www.alexaeason.com/booking. 

You can find this curvy, busty domme in Philadelphia and NYC. She'll also be making a trip to San Francisco at the end of September. Get in touch!

If you're looking for a dominant woman for female led relationships, but you don't live in Philly or NYC - check out my virtual options.

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Lucky for you, this view could be yours! Live and in the flesh! I’m itching to travel and have quite a few trips lined up for August and September. Here’s my calendar as of now:

Here are a few date ideas for August:

🏮 Philadelphia’s Chinese Lantern Featival in Franklin Square Park 

🧱 “The Art of the Brick” LEGO recreations of masterworks at The Franklin Institute. This one would be great for a double date with my friend Max!

🖼️ “Mary Cassatt at Work” exhibition at the Philadelphia Museum of Art

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For the month of September I’ll really be jetsetting. You can catch me in:

Richmond, VA - September 2-3

Washington, DC - September 3-4

Tysons, VA - September 4-5

Baltimore, MD - September 5-7

San Francisco/Oakland - September 26-30

I’m really excited about this upcoming travel and had a great time compiling this list of date ideas for the month of September:

🎭 Philadelphia Fringe Festival

🪅 Hirshhorn Museum & Sculpture Garden in Washington, DC

🪩 Art, science, and wonder at the Exploratorium in San Francisco

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I hope I get to see you live and in the flesh soon, but if that’s not in the cards, we can always flirt and canoodle virtually! I’m available for video calls, texting, and phone calls and I’d love to send off a few of my deliciously aromatic worn items to a dedicated scent specialist. I’ve also got my Clips4Sale and ManyVids up and running for your enjoyment!

Check out my virtual offerings

Until next time…

xo, Alexa

For those who can't make it to the city that never sleeps, I'm excited to remind you of my online videos available on ManyVids and Clips4Sale. There are several videos already uploaded and ready for you to dive into, and I'll be adding fresh, tantalizing content every other week to keep the momentum going.

Let's create some unforgettable memories together, whether in person or virtually!

Additionally, if you’d like to support the artistic endeavor of my photo shoot, you can contribute to the costs via CashApp to $ae333. Your support would mean the world to me and help bring even more beautiful creations to life.

I can't wait to see what magic we create together.

xo,

Alexa Eason

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Here are the dates and cities I have laid out:

Garden City, NY May 17-18

Stamford, CT May 18-19

Bedford, NH May 19-20

Boston, MA May 20-21

Providence, RI May 21-23

If you’ve been missing me or dreaming about me, this is your golden opportunity! I’ll be arranging appointments for sensual rendezvous, long walks on the beach, and delicious debauchery. Rest assured, it promises to be an unforgettable odyssey!

If you’re a new suitor - please begin the screening process by completing the form on my website. If we’re already acquainted - just send me an email at alexaeason@protonmail.com.

Can you speak to how spanking can be used as a part of D/s, funishment, punishment, and therapy? 

Impact play, and spanking in particular, has such a broad range of uses! Spanking can be one of the more accessible ways for people to participate in kink. You can have a stable of impact tools, but spanking is just you and your hand 😜 

There are two ways to look at spanking: from the point of the spanker and that of the spankee.  Some spankees are all about pain and subservience. It’s about paying the price for their transgressions and getting just what they deserve. Others are into spanking because they love humiliation and degradation. What’s more humiliating than being ass up, exposed and vulnerable, draped over mommy’s knee? Still, for others, spanking is more of a somatic experience. It’s an opportunity to slow down and focus on the feelings in their body and the things happening around them. This can be deeply healing for many people who experience dissociation or those that are often running through life overwhelmed and overextended. 

For spankers it can be about the joy of inflicting pain, the feeling of dominance and control over their submissive, or the process of delivering punishment. I personally love the sadism of spanking and the way butts jiggle when they meet the force of my hand!

Personally, I love incorporating spanking into scenes, because it’s so versatile. In public, one of my greatest joys is to come up behind a submissive and give them a discreet, but firm pat on the butt - just to assert my dominance. It’s pretty standard that spanking serves as a punishment, but when spanking can be a reward is where I really shine. I want my submissives to beg me to spank them and I love to see the delight in their eyes when I acquiesce! Spanking doesn’t have to be painful and I don’t have to dominate someone physically to maintain control. Sensual spanking is more about the position of one's hand/tool and how they control the force of the impact. I’ve had multiple people tell me that when I spank them in this manner they feel it more in their nether regions than anywhere else, and that’s just what I like to hear. 

What are some of your favorite spanking toys/implements?

One of my all time favorite tools for spanking is a leather glove. It may seem simple, but I love it because it allows me to prolong my spankings. I don’t enjoy experiencing pain personally, so the leather glove provides the right amount of protection for my hands and still allows me to connect physically with my submissive. Plus, I love juxtaposing soft, smooth, leather-clad caresses with hard and heavy beatings! 

What are 1-2 key safety tips people need to keep in mind? 

When it comes to spanking and impact, it’s really important that less experienced dominants avoid directly hitting any joints or internal organs. For instance, avoid the knees, elbows, neck, spine, ears, stomach, tailbone, and kidneys. Instead, stick to areas that are well protected by muscle and fat like the butt and thighs. Aside from that, I highly recommend using a safeword or the stoplight system and negotiating your scene beforehand. It may not seem sexy, but anticipation is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Also, be careful in choosing a dominant or top - kink and BDSM have become more trendy lately and plenty of people can talk the talk, but they can’t safely walk the walk. There’s always risk in kink, but playing with someone who has no idea what they’re doing can be really dangerous, both mentally and physically.

So what do you think? If you’re interested in a more “hands on” information session just get in touch via my website - https://www.alexaeason.com.

xo!

Alexa

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Available in New York City February 26-28!

I suspect that my calendar will fill up quckly so please get in touch soon to reserve your preferred day and time! Click here for my booking form or email me at contact@alexaeason.com.

Spreading the Love:

I’m once again available for custom videos and photos! Custom videos start at $40 for 4 minutes and custom photo sets start at $4/photo. Email me to make your wet dreams a reality! contact@alexaeason.com

Spicy Date Ideas:

How aboiut a date night that’s hotter than a jalapeño? Playing footsie under the dinner table and then dessert back at my place? I’ll diddle more than your heart strings and make you scream for more. Let’s go to:

• Bud & Marilyn’s in Philadelphia- A kitschy supper club that serves up guilty pleasures with a wink

• Cafe Aldo Lamberti in Cherry Hill - Route 70 landmark serving upscale Italian

• Lark in Bala Cynwyd - Delicious Mediterranean, art deco chandeliers, velvet banquettes, and a gorgeous view

Show Me Some Love:

• Make my day by following me on X (formerly Twitter)!

• Don’t forget Instagram!

• Want to impress me? Get me a Valentine’s Day gift!

Sweetheart Deals:

Forget heart-eyed emojis; I’m talking heart-stopping discounts! For the rest of February I’m offering a special date package that’s better than any love letter. Take $100 off dates when you mention "CUPIDWHO" in your booking form or email!

I hope your Valentine’s Day is delicious! If you’d like it to be a little sweeter, this cake is always here for you ;-)

xo, Alexa

I’m a fat sensual dominatrix and femdom in Philadelphia with an Aquarius sun and a Capricorn moon. I love all things fetish, erotic, and freaky! Being a witness and participant in people’s erotic processes is near and dear to my heart. I love to watch people come to terms with the things they desire most and I love to help them turn those desires into reality. Leather culture will always have a special place in my heart and identity, but lately, latex has really struck my fancy. I practice my perverse proclivities with a mischievous smile, a sly giggle, and a particularly vicious twinkle in my eye.

In my spare time I’m an equestrian, a cat devotee, an avid antique store patron, and a pinball enthusiast. I am very laid back and down to earth, but I delight in luxury goods and designer comforts. Rich and delicious food is a special interest of mine and I’m just as happy in a train car diner as I am in a Michelin stared restaurant.

Well that’s enough for now, diary! We’ll have plenty of time to get to know each other a little more.

xo, Alexa

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