After several weeks of writing about Paris, I have a backlog of other things to share. I’ve been saving links, collecting images, and making mental notes of what’s caught my attention. There’s more from the trip to come, but for now I’m turning my focus back to my closet, what I’ve been wearing, and what’s on my mind as we head into November.

If you missed the Paris posts, you can read about what I wore and what it was like to travel solo.

Boots and a Great Pair of Jeans

I’ve mentioned my Nili Lotan jeans before, but they’re worth revisiting, especially when paired with boots that make the combination even better. Nili Lotan does denim particularly well, and although she makes two very similar styles, I prefer the Celia. They have that slightly relaxed, lived-in look I love in denim, with just enough attitude to make them a little more interesting than a classic straight-leg jean.

A low-heeled boot with an elongated, slightly squared toe to wear with my longer jeans has been on my wish list for a while. I have plenty of boots, but some have heels too high for a lot of walking, while others have a rounder toe that works but isn’t the look I’m after right now. I found exactly what I wanted in the Minori boots from Emme Parsons. They were comfortable from the first time I put them on. I love the proportion with longer jeans, when the hem falls almost to the floor and just the tip of the boot peeks out. It gives the whole look a more modern feel.

Jackets, Old and New

I’ve built a small collection of jackets over the years, and each fall I like to add another if the right style comes along. This year, it’s a gray suede shirt-jacket. I haven’t worn suede in years, so this feels fresh for my wardrobe, yet works with nearly everything I already own. In Paris, I wore it more than I expected. The relaxed shape layers easily over a shirt or lightweight sweater, and with jeans, the outfit is done. It’s true to size (wearing a 36).

On my shopping list is a faux-shearling topper, something I could wear casually with denim or over dressier pieces in the evening. I like the look of the J.Crew barn jacket (also in brown with a black collar) and several Apparis options that read more polished. This one in navy is beautiful.

Double-faced wool jackets are good for light layering and work well with California’s mild weather. They’re warm without the weight of a full coat and easy to wear with jeans. I wore an ’S Max Mara camel style in New York, and it reminded me how much I love the feel and look of them. This burgundy peacoat follows the same idea in a deeper color, and I also like this longer camel version.

The Holiday Outfit You Already Own

The most useful holiday pieces are the ones I keep wearing long after the parties are over. I prefer to get creative with separates rather than a single outfit. Skirts, pants, and blazers in silk, metallics, and velvet dress up easily for an evening, yet work just as well with the casual pieces in my closet on any other day. And because they can be styled differently each time, they come back the following year without looking the same.

My black DONNI taffeta pants are a good example. I’ve worn them during the day with a T-shirt and sneakers or a sweater and loafers, and in the evening with a relaxed black V-neck and sandals. They look just as good with flats as with heels, and with a sweater as with a blouse. Change the shoes and accessories, and it’s an entirely different outfit. I packed them for Paris, where they took up almost no room in my suitcase. Black is the easiest to style, but I can see other colors working just as well. Right now, I’m eyeing them in ivory.

When I’m looking for dressier separates, I tend to stick with silhouettes I’d wear anyway, like a full trouser, a blazer, or a maxi skirt. Finding those familiar shapes in a richer fabric gives me something I can wear for an evening out and still work into my everyday wardrobe. I’d pair this velvet maxi skirt with an oversized cashmere sweater or the matching blazer with jeans. But worn together, they make a complete evening look. This metallic skirt and top work the same way.

Another combination I often come back to is a fitted top with a full skirt. Something as uncomplicated as a black turtleneck with three-quarter-length sleeves balances the volume of the skirt and always looks elegant.

Accessories make the biggest difference, and this is where I tend to have a little more fun. I’ll layer several necklaces, add faceted beads, carry a bright bag, or choose a shoe in an unexpected color. I’d wear this strand of ruby beads with a few gold necklaces, so just a hint of red catches the light. A blue ostrich clutch (with an optional strap) adds texture and a pop of color to an otherwise understated outfit. And unlike some evening accessories, it’s something I’d happily carry year-round, including with summer clothes.

I’m also convinced that a good red lipstick can dress up almost anything. I’ve been wearing the red OMMAGE lipstick I discovered in Paris, and am happy to see it’s now available at Violet Grey. With a simple black outfit, a little jewelry, and a red lip, not much else is needed.

Jewelry: Mix It Up

I’m completely comfortable mixing fine jewelry with less precious pieces. In these photographs, I’ve stacked a ring from Electric Picks with my own fine jewelry and done much the same with an assortment of gold bangles. Different metals, textures, and finishes sit together, and nothing needs to match.

It’s also an opportunity to be creative. A new ring, necklace, or bracelet can change how I style the pieces I already own, and I enjoy trying combinations I might not otherwise have considered. Lately, I’ve been wearing a pair of Jenny Bird earrings in 14K gold with lab-grown diamonds. The diamonds hang just below the ear on a short gold bar, rather than sitting directly on the lobe. It’s a unique design that always draws compliments. For something more dramatic, I’ve been eyeing the large drop solitaire earrings from Dorsey. They offer plenty of sparkle without the investment in fine diamonds.

There’s a practical side to it, too. I don’t always want to travel with my most valuable jewelry, and having a few alternatives gives me plenty of options without the worry.

A Few Accessories Worth Sharing

I was in Park City last week, and a friend took this photograph while we were out on a walk after Pilates. I was still in my workout clothes, so I’d layered a cashmere bandana over my sweater and added a hat and sunglasses. It was a casual morning, and we weren’t going into town, but even in leggings, I felt a little more put together.

Several of you asked about the bandana after I shared the photograph on Instagram. One reader told me she’d added it to her Christmas wish list but couldn’t decide between the blue I’m wearing and the red. It also comes in tan for anyone who prefers neutrals. They’re all beautiful! The marled colors and soft texture add interest to a plain sweater without the bulk of a larger scarf. I’ve also worn it over a blazer on the way to dinner. It adds just enough warmth, and I simply take it off once I’m seated.

And on a gifting note, it arrives beautifully packaged in a ribbon-tied box. I love a good presentation.

The hat is a packable style from Rag & Bone I’ve had for years. Mine was flattened in my suitcase and bounced right back into shape.

A new pair of sunglasses is one of the easiest ways to make a familiar outfit look current without changing anything else. This pair from ETC. has a thick, squared frame that gives the classic pieces I wear most, like a cashmere sweater or a felt hat, a more modern edge. Despite their substantial look, they’re surprisingly light and comfortable enough to wear all day. They also come in red, which I’m tempted to try.

A Final Thought

One thing I’ve been reminded of lately is how much I enjoy wearing old favorites in different ways. Sometimes it’s a new pair of boots, an interesting scarf, or a piece of jewelry that makes me look at something I’ve owned for years a little differently. None of it requires starting over. After weeks of dressing from a suitcase, it’s been nice to come home to my closet and see everything in it with fresh eyes. And often, one new piece is all it takes to make the rest feel new again.

I don’t plan outfits in advance. Instead, each morning I consider the temperature, my calendar, and generally how I feel like dressing that day. Occasionally, I’d return to the hotel midday to change a layer as the temperature shifted. Otherwise, I worked with what I’d brought, repeating favorite pieces in different combinations. There’s an ease in dressing this way, knowing how something will feel throughout the day, both in comfort and style. I take much the same approach at home.

When I was packing for this trip, I made a conscious effort to move away from black, which is usually the starting point of my wardrobe. As I began laying everything out, a mix of browns, camel, charcoal, and denim took shape. A little navy and a few softer colors worked their way in, too. Brown has been particularly appealing to me this season, especially alongside gray, pale blue, pink, and cream.

Shirts, Denim, and the Pieces on Repeat

Shirts became the foundation of much of what I wore during the day. I’ve always appreciated the ease of a button-down with jeans, particularly when the fabric has a nice hand and the fit is relaxed without being oversized. A shirt adds polish to an otherwise casual outfit and offers plenty of possibilities for layering.

A pale blue cotton poplin from Comme Si was in frequent rotation. I think every closet benefits from a pale blue button-down. It’s flattering near my face, works with nearly every neutral, and is a year-round staple. I wore mine open at the neck, often with a small silk scarf, under a trench or blazer, and layered with lightweight knits. Early on, I recognized the versatility of having a poplin shirt option on this trip, and bought a couple along the way, including a brown pinstripe from Hartford.

For a completely different feel, a brown and white wide-striped shirt from TWP was ideal on warmer days. Made from a fine cotton-silk, it’s almost sheer, so I wore it with a white Susana Monaco tank underneath. I also own the tank in black. It’s a closet staple. The lightness of the striped shirt was particularly welcome on days when the temperature stayed warm well into the evening.

For cooler days, I liked the weight of a denim shirt, which I often paired with Citizens of Humanity Annina jeans. The washes are so close in color that together they create a continuous line of denim. It’s a combination I often wear at home and an ideal starting point for adding a blazer, jacket, sweater, or scarf. I usually wear a belt to break up the denim at the waist, while keeping the rest of the outfit relatively uninterrupted. Whatever I layer over it becomes the focus.

Four pairs of jeans were in regular rotation, each with a different shape. The newest addition was a slim straight pair from CLOSED, purchased at Henry Lehr in the Hamptons just before leaving. I hadn’t been wearing a narrower leg much lately, and was reminded how good the proportions can look with flat sneakers or Mary Janes. After several seasons of fuller denim, the change felt fresh.

The relaxed Annina jeans from Citizens of Humanity have the silhouette I noticed most often on women in Paris, across all age groups. They have a heavier weight than the other jeans I brought, and the soft, loose leg nearly grazes the floor. The shape feels current without being trendy. I’ve had mine for years and love the way they hang perfectly off the mid-waist. The other two denim styles I packed, one charcoal and one in a mid-wash blue, both from MOTHER, have high waists and full, slightly flared legs that give them more of a trouser feel. I particularly like those with blouses tucked in and a belt, although their length calls for a boot with a little height.

My dinners were generally casual, so for evenings I often kept the same denim or changed into a pair of DONNI pants, replacing a daytime shirt with something softer or a little dressier. A brown ruffled blouse from TWP is an old favorite. I own two other colors of this exact style, navy and ivory, and haven’t tired of the shape after several years. I’m now considering adding it in tan.

I also wore a Nili Lotan silk-chiffon polka-dot bow blouse several times, and it became the most requested item from my Paris posts. Unfortunately, it’s from a previous season, so I’ve linked several good alternatives:

Similar styles: Nili Lotan brown dot blouse · Milly tie neck blouse · Lafayette 148 semi-sheer dot blouse · Lafayette 148 tie-neck blouse · Nili Lotan polka dot blouse without bow · J.Crew plaid georgette blouse with bow tie · The Great brown dot blouse

I especially like the semi-sheer dot and the tie-neck crêpe de Chine blouses from Lafayette 148. They’ve both been added to my fall shopping list along with another Nili Lotan blouse. Not a bow tie, but equally fabulous. Maybe red? A yellow printed, ruffle-front blouse from Ulla Johnson was another nice option. I bought it in the Hamptons just before the trip and was glad to introduce a lighter color. None of these blouses need much styling, and I generally wore them with jeans, a change of shoes, and occasionally a blazer. They were just right for dinner or an evening out.

Scarves and Layers

Scarves probably made the biggest difference in how my familiar clothes looked. I wear many of these same shirts and jeans at home, but Southern California doesn’t offer nearly as many opportunities to wear scarves. In Paris, they changed the look of an outfit without changing the clothes underneath.

When I wanted something with just a hint of layering, I reached for small silk scarves in the losange shape. I don’t have to think twice about how to tie them. They always seem to fall into place when wrapped twice or three times around my neck and tucked neatly into an open shirt. Several times, I wore an Hermès blue geometric losange purchased years ago, which reminded me of how much I love this shape. I shopped for more in the Hermès boutiques (ask to see them in the men’s department).

On my first day in Paris, I spotted a beautiful rose-pink Prada scarf edged in burgundy. Once I realized it was the losange shape, I didn’t hesitate to make it my first purchase of the trip. I knew it would be easy to wear with much of what I’d brought.

Cashmere foulards were another favorite, including a bright pink triangle and an argyle-patterned one. The smaller triangular shape is easy to style over a shirt or sweater, adding warmth without much bulk. One of my new favorite foulards is this pale yellow argyle, so pretty with a soft palette. A larger navy fringed scarf from TWP, purchased in New York, offered more coverage and weight. I especially liked the fringe layered over sweaters or with the scarf tied around my waist. I’m hoping they restock it.

I chose several lightweight sweaters in more interesting colors, including chartreuse, bright red, and pink, with the idea of using them as styling pieces rather than necessarily wearing them for warmth. I tied them around my waist, draped them over my shoulders, or wrapped them around my neck with the sleeves falling backward, almost like a scarf. Against all the brown, gray, and denim, these little additions of color made a noticeable difference.

Jackets surprised me. I’d brought two casual, lightweight wool Max Mara jackets expecting to wear them regularly, but the weather rarely called for them. Instead, I kept reaching for softer layers, particularly a gray suede shirt jacket and a tartan plaid cashmere cardigan jacket.

ARMA gifted me a suede shirt jacket before I left, and it was one of the pieces I was most excited to wear. The color, called Soil, looks much darker on their website than it does in person. I loved how the soft gray worked with the browns and denim I’d packed, particularly with the pink Prada scarf. It had enough weight to keep out the chill without feeling like a substantial jacket. The tartan cashmere cardigan offered something different, with its pattern and softer shape. Both felt more interesting to me on this trip than simply throwing on one of my usual jackets.

The Basics and Finishing Pieces

I always pack a few short-sleeve T-shirts, but they never made it into rotation on this trip. Instead, I kept alternating between two long-sleeved styles: a fine pointelle tee from DONNI and a classic basic tee from SOLD OUT NYC.

Both have enough detail and shape to stand on their own, but what I particularly appreciate is how neatly they sit at the neckline when layered under a crewneck sweater. I like seeing that small slice of white peeking out. They’re equally good under an open shirt jacket or cardigan, and those were the combinations I found myself wearing.

With so much walking, shoes required a little more thought. My black Rothy’s sneakers were the most frequently worn, while perforated Mary Janes were a nice alternative on warmer days. Brown suede boots gave the fuller jeans the height they needed.

For evenings, I occasionally changed into black Mary Janes from The Row, usually with my DONNI pants. They’re beautiful flats, but the thin soles aren’t ideal for hours on cobblestones. I also had a red pair of Alaïa Mary Janes that I wore only once, since the other pairs covered much the same ground.

Toward the end of the trip, I bought a pair of Pierre Hardy leather loafers. After weeks of rotating through the same shoes, they gave familiar outfits a slightly different feel. They were also comfortable straight out of the box. I wore them for an entire day without a single issue, which is always a welcome surprise with new shoes.

My three handbags each had a distinct purpose. The small black Dior crossbody was ideal when I wanted to carry very little and often came out in the evening. The Prada nylon bag was good on rainy days when I didn’t want to wear a leather bag. Plus, it’s large enough to carry my video camera, an umbrella, folded hat, and anything else I needed for longer days or visits to the flea market.

The white Hyer Goods bag was a particularly good choice. I liked its shape, weight, and color, and it held more than its size suggested. It was comfortable worn crossbody and looked quite different with the strap removed and carried by its top handle. The one drawback was how easily the white leather picked up color from my denim. I found myself cleaning it fairly often to keep it looking fresh. Fortunately, it cleaned up easily, although a darker color might have been more practical for everyday use.

Traveling always makes me want to edit my closet when I get home. After several weeks of wearing a relatively small collection of clothes in different combinations, I’m reminded how much I can do with clothes I already own. Then I open my closet at home and wonder why I have so much. It’s a good reminder to keep wearing what I already love and be a little more selective about everything else.

I’ve gathered links to everything still available, along with similar options for older pieces, all in one place on ShopMy.

I’d been thinking about traveling solo for years, but as I got older, it seemed to be becoming more of a distant dream than something I was actually going to do. I didn’t want to look back with regrets, or reach a point where fear convinced me I couldn’t do it. Once I finally said out loud that I was going to Paris on my own, I knew there was no turning back. I would have been disappointed in myself if I’d changed my mind. Part of taking this trip was simply proving to myself that I could.

Throughout my time in Paris, I received quite a few messages asking how I was enjoying the experience. Was I lonely? Did I mind eating by myself? What did I do all day? Did I feel safe? And why would I want to go solo in the first place? Along with the questions came stories from women who often travel on their own, others who were thinking about it, and plenty of encouragement from those who have made it a regular part of their lives. Many spoke about how liberating the experience had been and the confidence it gave them.

One message particularly resonated with me. A reader wrote that she’d traveled fearlessly on her own when she was younger but hadn’t done so in years. She wondered how it would feel now, as an older woman, not having someone alongside her to discuss the day or make decisions with. I understood exactly what she meant. I’d traveled for work in my twenties and never thought twice about it. But somewhere along the way, the idea of setting off for an extended trip by myself had started to feel very different.

Paris felt like the right place to try it. I knew I would enjoy the museums, shopping, galleries, antiquing, and simply wandering the streets. It was a trip built around things I am perfectly happy doing by myself, often even preferring it that way. I think traveling solo is very destination-dependent.

The Luxury of Time

When I travel with family or friends, I’m usually the planner. I like having things organized, making reservations, thinking ahead, and making sure everyone is having a good time. The days tend to fill up quickly, and I’m always conscious of what everyone else might want to do.

In Paris, I had none of that responsibility. No one waiting for me, no one counting on me, no schedule to consider beyond my own. There was plenty of time to settle into a routine, or, as it turned out, no routine at all. And that was the best part. Having complete control of my time was a luxury I hadn’t fully appreciated until I experienced it.

Some of my favorite mornings were spent having breakfast in bed. A pot of coffee or a latte, a basket of warm bread and croissants, and absolutely no reason to hurry. I could read, have another coffee, and take my time deciding what I felt like doing. Some mornings I left the hotel early, others I lingered until 11. There was no particular reason to be anywhere at any particular time.

Once I was out, though, I rarely wanted to stop. Paris energized me. I could spend hours walking, looking, discovering, and still find myself wanting to do one more thing. Sometimes I’d return to the hotel to change clothes because the weather had warmed up, then turn right around and head out again. My downtime was generally in the mornings. During the day, I wanted to be out experiencing the city.

I loved the spontaneity of it all. One morning in Saint-Germain, I was on my way to a showing of a new knitwear collection when I passed a small jewelry gallery with beautiful vintage pieces in the window. A green intaglio ring caught my eye. It was a style I’d been looking for over the years, and this one looked pretty perfect. Rather than make a mental note to return, I walked straight in and asked to try it on. It was a small size and fit my pinkie perfectly. The color of the stone, the engraving, the wonderfully detailed setting. I knew immediately it was the one. I bought it on the spot, knowing I’d regret it if I came back later and it was gone.

Other days I’d spend wandering into a French pharmacy, antique shops, galleries, or food markets. Anything that caught my eye or interested me was reason enough to go in and have a look. Nobody was standing outside waiting for me to finish. Nobody was getting restless. I could stay as long as I liked.

Another example was the day I visited an antique market outside Paris. I’d deliberately kept the day flexible, waiting until I felt like going rather than committing to a particular schedule. Once there, I wandered the aisles at my own pace, sometimes going back through them two or three times. When I’d finally had enough, I could have returned to my hotel and called it a day. Instead, I got a second burst of energy and had a car take me back to the Marais to revisit a couple of shops. Had I been with someone else, I imagine they might have been ready to go back to the hotel. But I wasn’t. I wanted to keep going, and I could.

Spending a little longer in a shop, taking a different street home, or stopping for coffee when I felt like it. Small things, but they added up.

Finding My Own Rhythm

I’ve never been uncomfortable dining solo, so the prospect of doing so throughout my trip gave me no hesitation. I was often given what felt like an ideal table, with a view of the restaurant and everything going on around me. I could enjoy my meal and take in the atmosphere.

On one occasion, I returned to a restaurant and the maître d’ welcomed me back to “my table.” He even remembered which wine I’d ordered previously and what kind of water I preferred. Thoughtful little details that made me feel especially welcome.

My eating schedule became unconventional. Breakfast at 11, lunch at 4, perhaps no dinner at all. I could eat when I was hungry rather than because it was time for a meal. The evening after the ballet, I wanted a quick bite, so I stopped in the lounge at my hotel and ordered a hot apple tart before bed. I sat there enjoying my dessert, watching the people around me, perfectly content. That was dinner.

Before leaving for Paris, I’d made a few evening plans, knowing I’d enjoy having something to look forward to beyond dinner. I wanted to give some of my nights a little structure while keeping my days free to explore. An evening concert at Sainte-Chapelle, the ballet at Palais Garnier, and visits to museums that stayed open late. These were all things I genuinely wanted to experience, but I didn’t want them taking time away from everything I enjoyed doing during the day.

I felt safe throughout my time in Paris. I was mindful of where I was and the time of day, but I never felt particularly vulnerable. Staying in hotels was a big part of that. The concierges and front desk staff knew I was coming and going, and there was always someone to greet me when I returned.

After the opera, I could easily have taken a car back to my hotel in Saint-Germain, but I wanted to experience Paris at night from the street and enjoyed the 40-minute walk instead. I passed the Louvre and its illuminated pyramid, crossed the river, and continued through Saint-Germain. There were so many people out enjoying the evening that I never felt uncomfortable.

I’ve wondered whether I’d rent an apartment on a future extended visit, but the experience reminded me how much I value staying in a hotel, particularly when traveling solo. The convenience, the familiarity, the people who recognize you, and the ability to ask for help or advice whenever you need it. Staying in a hotel was a luxury.

I also considered the logistics of traveling that might cause unnecessary stress and arranged a few things in advance to make the experience easier. For my arrival in France, I booked the Air France concierge service, which met me at the gate, whisked me through passport control, collected my luggage, and arranged my transfer to the hotel. Navigating an airport with several bags after a long flight wasn’t something I was looking forward to.

And frankly, I didn’t feel I had anything to prove by doing it all myself. At this stage of my life, if there’s a way to make something easier, more comfortable, or less stressful, I’m happy to take advantage of it. Traveling independently was about enjoying my freedom, not making every part of the experience more difficult than it needed to be.

My two sons came to Paris for an extended weekend, and it was an absolute highlight. We hit the ground running every day, ate considerably more than I would have on my own, and spent a wonderful evening on a private sunset cruise along the Seine.

That was an experience I wouldn’t have wanted to do alone. Floating along the river at sunset, watching Paris light up, was something I wanted to share. I might have felt lonely doing that by myself. Having my boys there made it especially memorable.

What I Learned About Myself

Did I feel lonely during the rest of the trip? No. I chatted with people in restaurants and shops, with the concierges at my hotels, and with people I happened to meet along the way. I enjoyed those conversations, but I was equally happy returning to my own company afterward.

I discovered how much I enjoyed simply wandering without a destination. Paris is particularly good for this. Some afternoons I didn’t return to the hotel until after six or seven, not because I had so much to do, but because I had no reason to stop.

Looking back, solo travel confirmed a few things about myself that I think I’ve always known. I enjoy my own company. I love spontaneity. And I’m endlessly curious. When I travel, I’m constantly noticing things, taking in my surroundings, following whatever catches my interest. The streets, the architecture, the shops, the conversations, the food, the smallest details. I love capturing these moments in photographs, too, sometimes stopping simply because the light or a particular scene caught my eye. I love that feeling of being completely engaged with what’s around me.

What’s staying with me isn’t necessarily everything I saw or bought, although there was plenty of both. It’s the feeling of having those days entirely to myself. The freedom to change my mind, follow my curiosity, or do absolutely nothing without feeling I should be doing something else.

I went to Paris wanting to prove to myself that I could travel solo. I came home reminded of how much I enjoy my own company, and just how much of a luxury it is to have days with no set plans, open to whatever might come along.

For a look at what I wore in Paris, I’ve shared more on Instagram, and you can find the pieces I packed and wore, along with similar finds, on my PARIS shop page.

The trip itself was a bit of a return to an old tradition. A friend and I used to go to New York for a September shopping trip every year, something we hadn’t done since before Covid. This year we picked up where we left off and added a few days in the Hamptons. We both have sons who live in New York, so there were dinners with them mixed in too.

The Packing Part

This trip required a little more thought than usual. After New York and the Hamptons, I was traveling to Paris for a few weeks before returning to New York in mid-October. The wardrobe needed to cover a lot of ground: warm September days, rain, cooler evenings, and eventually a real change of season.

I started with a fairly tight color palette and varied the weights and layers. Colorful scarves became an easy way to add variety and prevent repetitive looks. Keeping the edit fairly tight made it easier to cover a lot of variables without feeling as though I was packing unrelated wardrobes.

Denim Was the Starting Point

It’s the base for so much of what I wear in the fall, and I knew it would be the foundation for whatever else I wanted to add this season. I brought four different shapes: a cropped pair, a long full-leg to wear with boots, a slouchier relaxed straight-leg, and an ecru full-leg. I knew those four would cover a lot of bases.

Most were in the familiar faded washes I tend to wear, but once I got to New York, I found myself interested in simple, dark denim. I tried on several in New York, but ended up buying a slim pair from Closed in the Hamptons that are insanely comfortable. The perfect amount of stretch makes them flattering.

Then There Was Brown

In every variation, shades of brown became the starting point for my fall palette: chocolate, camel, cognac, tobacco. Once I started pulling things together, an entire color story emerged around those shades. Mixing the browns with olive, rose, gray, black and cream made it feel modern for the season.

With brown so much on my mind, pieces in those tones naturally caught my eye. When I came across something that worked, it was easy to picture how I’d layer it into what I’d packed and the pieces already in my wardrobe. A brown striped poplin shirt was an easy yes. But it wasn’t only the color that interested me. I kept gravitating toward texture too: corduroy, suede, velvet, anything with a little depth and softness.

What I found

I had a few things in mind that I wanted to shop for: sunglasses, a new trench or car coat, and a modern heeled pump. But once I started shopping, that list quickly became less important. Some of the things I’d looked at online and had very little interest in suddenly made complete sense once I tried them on. Other things I hadn’t been looking for at all caught my attention.

That’s one of the things I still love about shopping in person. You can go in thinking you know exactly what you’re looking for, but fit, fabric and proportion can completely change your mind.

Jeans and a shirt are such a familiar pairing for me, which explains why I’m often adding another when I see something good. Along with the brown striped poplin shirt, I found a pale-yellow printed blouse from Ulla Johnson with a ruffled front that feels very Chloé. If there had been a matching long skirt, I would have bought that too.

Brown corduroy was another idea I kept coming back to. I tried on several versions, from more structured blazers to softer, more relaxed shapes, and liked how easily they worked with the darker denim and the rest of the palette I’d packed.

A fringed TWP scarf was another example of why I still love shopping in person. It’s probably not something I would have given much thought to online, but the minute I tried it on, it was an immediate yes. Worn as a scarf or wrapped around the waist, it added something completely different to pieces I already had.

I discovered Hartford at Henry Lehr. It’s a French brand inspired by American classics, which is probably why it immediately appealed to me. I bought a couple of shirts and a relaxed velvet blazer. The fit was excellent and the price point felt reasonable.

I packed a pair of black DONNI silk pants and wasn’t exactly sure how I’d work them in with everything else, but they ended up going with almost everything and became a key piece on warmer days. I wore them to dinner with a silk blouse and The Row flats, then completely changed the look during the day with a T-shirt and sneakers. They also take up practically no room in a suitcase.

A Shoe Story

A mid-heel pump was one of the few things on my list. My friend and I were both looking for something that didn’t feel too classic but didn’t stray too far from the styles we knew we’d actually wear. I wanted something that could work with jeans or a skirt, but also look right peeking out from under a long trouser. After trying on quite a few, we both landed on the same pair from Khaite. The shape felt modern, the heel was manageable, and surprisingly, they were incredibly comfortable.

Trying on so many shoes and boots also got me thinking about toe shape. Pointed, round and square all have a place, but the styles that looked freshest to me had an elongated toe, either slightly pointed or squared, especially with a heel. With flats, I still prefer something rounder, like the Alaia Mary Janes I wear frequently.

Then there were The Row boots. I already own a flat brown suede lug-sole boot with exposed tan leather detailing, which gives it a more casual feel. The Row version caught my eye immediately: a much deeper, more uniform brown with a slightly higher lug heel. That little bit of height makes all the difference with my longer jeans and trousers. They’re fabulous. I sized down.

More and More Texture

My interest in texture wasn’t limited to clothes. I went to the Kips Bay Decorator Show House in New York, and one of the first things I noticed was the texture everywhere. Velvet and fabric-covered walls, plaster reliefs, carved surfaces, embroidery, pleated shades and layers of pattern. Every room seemed to have something I wanted to reach out and touch.

It made all the spaces feel unique and interesting. I’ve been to decorator show houses where I walk away without feeling there was any real connection from one room to the next, but this one was different. There was a thread running through the entire house, and for me it was the attention to texture and surfaces.

A few days later in Sag Harbor, I noticed it again while visiting a couple of interior design stores. The aesthetic was much cleaner and more modern, but texture was still very much part of the story. Here it showed up in smoother, more tactile finishes and simpler forms.

Seeing those two very different approaches so close together got me thinking about how I could bring a little of both into my own home. Not necessarily a major change, but through finishing touches: a sculptural mirror, an interesting lamp or hanging fixture, or an object with a great surface or finish.

Moving On to Paris

A few days of getting dressed for fall, shopping in person, and seeing what caught my eye gave me a much clearer sense of what I’m interested in for the season. Darker denim, lots of brown, texture in all forms, great accessories, and a few changes in proportion all made the list.

Now I’m in Paris, where I’m less focused on a shopping agenda and more devoted to an exploration of what inspires me. Although I’m not looking for anything specific, in the back of my mind I hope to find one or two special pieces to bring home, not to fulfill my fall shopping list, but to capture the memory of the trip itself. Those are always the best souvenirs.

The Paris part came together somewhat unexpectedly, although the idea of going there on my own isn’t new. It’s something I’ve wanted to do for a long time, and suddenly the timing worked. I’ve traveled alone before, mostly for business when I was a buyer in my twenties, but I’ve never really traveled solo simply for the sake of exploring. No meetings to get to, no one waiting for me, and no one else’s agenda to consider.

That has sent me down a research rabbit hole. I’ve been to Paris many times, but planning a stay there on my own feels different. I’m looking more closely at neighborhoods, how I might spend my days, exhibitions I don’t want to miss, streets I’d like to wander, and a lot of shopping I might normally skip if I were with someone else. It’s very appealing to wake up and decide each day as it comes. I’m also curious to see how it feels once I’m there.

And then there’s the packing. I keep mentally organizing it all even when I’m doing something completely unrelated. Traveling from September into October means changing weather, so I’ll need clothes that can layer and adapt while providing enough variety that I don’t feel as though I’m wearing the same thing over and over. But the bigger question is how to pack for the whole trip without carrying everything with me through every part of it.

I’m considering shipping a larger suitcase ahead to Paris so I can travel lightly through New York and the Hamptons. I like the idea of having just what I need for those first several days with the rest waiting for me when I get there. Whether this is a brilliant solution or simply another logistical problem I’ve created for myself remains to be seen.

Before I even pull out the suitcases, I’m going back to The Pre-Packing Edit, which I put together a couple of months ago. It was my way of taking stock early, pulling out the things I already knew I’d want, checking that everything still fit and was in good shape, and figuring out what, if anything, was missing. Now I’m revisiting it with this trip in mind, deciding what still feels right and what can stay behind.

I’ve had a travel uniform for years, and for the most part it has served me very well. I know the silhouettes I’m comfortable in, the shoes I can walk in for hours, and the pieces that can go from a day of wandering around to dinner without requiring a complete change.

But Italy earlier this summer made me want to push that formula a bit. I packed a few pieces that were outside my usual and ended up really enjoying the change. I still want the comfort and practicality of what I know, but I’d like to allow for more creativity this time. Not an entirely new wardrobe, just enough to make getting dressed feel interesting.

I’m starting with a few newer pieces, including silk cargo pants from Donni that I can imagine wearing casually with a tee and sweatshirt or dressing up with a cashmere sweater (love the covered buttons on this cardigan) or a refined pointelle tee. I can wear them with my baroque pearls for a nice contrast, or layer a more casual single charm necklace for a completely different look.

I’m narrowing down the rest to a couple of relaxed trousers, including these from TWP and a grey pair from COS. Along with the long, loose trousers, I want one tailored pair in a slightly heavier fabric, maybe cropped, that can easily go from day to night.

Blazers are a little harder to narrow down. I always feel complete in one, which makes deciding how many to take surprisingly difficult. One seems sensible. Two gives me options. Three is probably where I start pretending they’re all completely different and therefore necessary. I’m deciding between a light grey or charcoal TWP blazer and this gold velvet blazer. My black Nili Lotan is a given.

I’ll also pack a few pieces of jewelry that I see working as an accessory. I have a long corded piece, for example, that reads more like a scarf than a necklace and can completely change something simple.

I’m also deciding which lightweight sweaters make the cut. They became such a key part of my wardrobe this summer, often tied at the waist to pull an outfit together, and I want to carry that idea into fall. At least one will be a bold color. I’m leaning heavily into red. Black is non-negotiable and will probably be a workhorse throughout the trip. This rolled cashmere sweater is my top contender. A crew in classic grey is another definite. Then perhaps an additional one with an interesting detail like the marled cashmere from the Banana Republic x La Ligne collaboration. I like it on its own or under a jacket, with just the belted edge peeking out below.

I’ll pack my Sold Out NYC tees, but I also want one or two that still read as T-shirts with a slightly more polished feel. A three-quarter sleeve does that particularly well. The Maria McManus cashmere tee, with its lace-edged neckline, is another option. Poplin shirts, knit scarves, and belts will rotate throughout the trip and give me plenty of ways to change things up without adding much to the suitcase.

Shoes can get complicated because comfort for hours of walking is essential. I have boots I’ve owned forever that I know I can walk miles in, so I’m not even tempted to look for new ones. Sneakers are another story. I have slim, flat sneakers that are popular right now, and I’m still deciding whether they’ll work for this trip. I like them with skirts or cropped pants, but not as much with full-length trousers. And I’m not convinced they’ll give me the support of a more traditional sneaker. I haven’t decided where I land on those yet.

I want everything to work together without creating a rigid lineup of outfits. With the change in season, I’m looking at a fall palette, layers, changing proportions, and pieces that can shift depending on what I wear with them. I want enough of my familiar travel wardrobe to feel comfortable day to day, with a few newer additions so it doesn’t feel like I’ve simply packed the same suitcase again.

Skincare is getting a much more streamlined approach. How much of my routine do I really want to take with me? I have the complete Dr. Diamond Metacine lineup, and I’m considering using just that while I’m away. I’ll be interested to see if I notice any difference in my skin after using one system consistently for an extended period.

The Calecim hair serum has been working for me, so that is definitely getting packed. I’ve been dedicated to the protocol for eight weeks now and don’t want to interrupt it. Sunscreen, micellar water cleanser, lip balm. Those are givens. Beyond that, I’m trying to keep it very simple.

So this week is a bit of everything. Researching, making reservations, making lists, reconsidering the lists, trying things on, figuring out what goes where, and attempting to get work and life reasonably organized before I go. I’m sure I’ll forget something. I’m equally sure I’ll buy whatever is missing.

Maybe that’s part of why I like the days before a trip so much. For a while, everything is still possible. The suitcase isn’t quite packed, the itinerary isn’t quite finished, and I don’t know yet which of the things I’ve spent so much time planning will turn out to matter at all. I’ll let you know.

Links to everything in this post here.

They’re all in my closet.

I was looking through A NOTE ON STYLE archives this week and went back more than a decade. What surprised me wasn’t how much my style had changed, but how many familiar faces kept showing up.

The back-to-school mentality ingrained from childhood makes September feel like a month to turn a page and start anew. But it’s also a time to settle back into familiar routines with a fresh perspective. That’s increasingly how I approach my wardrobe too, less interested in starting over each fall and more excited to get reacquainted with what I already have.

The farther back I went, the more interesting it became. In 2014 I was already drawn to the same clean combinations of denim, loafers, sweaters and shades I wear now. Brown, apparently, is one of my oldest friends. Camel, cognac, chocolate, suede, brown with black, brown with denim. Every fall I seem genuinely pleased to see it again.

Jackets are another reunion I look forward to. I love the return of a blazer or little coat, especially with high-waisted jeans, a tie-neck blouse and a slight heel. Those are the combinations that immediately feel like me again. Even the accessories signal the shift. Raffia moves aside for suede and leather in the deeper colors and textures I gravitate toward once fall arrives.

By 2016, the similarities became almost funny. I did an entire week of denim, and several of those outfits could go straight into my wardrobe today. One was little more than jeans, a white shirt and black jacket, made more interesting with beautiful earrings and a brown bag instead of the expected black. Ten years later, I’d happily wear the same formula.

That’s the thing about old friends. They’re reliable. At some point I liked these clothes enough to welcome them into my life, and there’s usually a reason the good ones are still around. I know what to expect and how I feel when I wear them. And in many cases, age has only made them better.

Some pieces are quite literally still here. Others have disappeared, only to be replaced over the years by remarkably similar versions. Sometimes it isn’t the actual piece that survives, but the idea of it.

What has changed is how I introduce everyone. An old jacket might suddenly work with a newer pair of jeans. A sweater in an unexpected color can change trousers I’ve worn dozens of times. Two things that have occupied the same closet for years may finally meet and get along surprisingly well. And sometimes two have become far too attached. Separating them and introducing them to someone else can be all it takes to make both interesting again.

That’s probably the part of fall dressing I enjoy most now. Not acquiring an entirely new wardrobe, but changing the relationships within the one I already have.

The archive also reminded me that continuity doesn’t mean standing still. I was amused to find a gold corduroy blazer from 2018 in almost exactly the shade I’m drawn to again now. The boots in that same story, on the other hand, can happily stay in 2018. There have been ruffles, gathered necklines, exaggerated sleeves and long coats I’ve moved away from too. Some no longer flatter me; others simply don’t make sense for my life. There was nothing wrong with them. We just grew apart.

And then there are the ones I’m unsure about. I tend to treat those gently. Time apart doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship is over. I might set them aside for a season and see how I feel the next time we meet. It has to be obvious that something will never find its way back to me before I’m ready to cut ties. I’d rather have a handful of close relationships in my closet than a swarm of mere acquaintances.

That doesn’t mean no one new is invited in. I love clothes and still get excited by a new loafer, a different jacket silhouette or a color I haven’t considered before. But before space is made for them, I need to be sure they speak the same language as the wardrobe I’ve already built. They don’t have to look like what I own; they just need to make sense with it.

Looking across more than a decade of fall posts, the thread is surprisingly clear. I keep coming back to fairly classic clothes, but it’s the less predictable shoe, the unexpected bag or a distinctive piece of jewelry that adds personality. The individual items may have come and gone, but the vocabulary has remained consistent.

Maybe that’s what knowing your own style looks like. Not dressing the same way forever, but recognizing what belongs to you and what you keep coming back to.

Of course, I’ll still shop for fall. I’m sure someone new will find her way into the circle this year. But first, I have a lot of old friends I’m looking forward to seeing again.

A FEW NEW FRIENDS
New versions of the classics I keep coming back to.

White jeans: TWP, J.Crew, Nili Lotan

Blue jeans: Khaite, Frame, Nili Lotan and these

Blazers: TWP, TOVE, Nili Lotan

Scarves: Toteme, Johnstons of Elgin, Crimson, Gucci

Knitwear: Alexandra Golovanoff, J.Crew, COS, La Ligne, Sold Out NYC, Guest in Residence

Bags: Khaite, Cuyana, Bottega Veneta

Mary Janes: Miu Miu, Scarosso, Alaïa, Margaux

Boots: Jamie Haller, Khaite, Valentino Garavani, M.Gemi, Nili Lotan

Loafers: M.Gemi, Gucci, The Row

Belts: TWP, Nili Lotan, B-Low the Belt, Ralph Lauren

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We spent six nights on Ischia at Mezzatorre, five nights at Il Pellicano, and finished with five nights at Pensione America in Forte dei Marmi. They were three very different experiences, which was exactly what I wanted when I planned the trip.

Rather than a traditional hotel review, I’m sharing the things I’d want to know if I were planning the trip again: where we stayed, what the experience was like, what we did, where we ate, and what I’d repeat.

MEZZATORRE

Mezzatorre is tucked away on the northwest coast of Ischia at the end of a winding road through pines and gardens. The hotel is built around a 16th-century watchtower on a rocky promontory overlooking its own bay, and the setting is spectacular. There isn’t a traditional sandy beach. Instead, terraces and swimming platforms are built into the rocky coastline above incredibly clear water.

Getting There

We wanted the arrival to be as easy as possible, so we asked Mezzatorre to arrange everything from our hotel in Naples. They offered several options, including a private boat transfer, hydrofoil, or ferry. I’m not particularly fond of small boats and didn’t know what the water conditions would be like, so we chose the ferry.

It couldn’t have been easier. A driver collected us at our hotel in Naples, took us to the ferry, and escorted us to where we needed to be. We were left to enjoy the roughly hour-long crossing, then met before it was time to disembark and driven directly to Mezzatorre. Door to door, the entire process was seamless.

We stayed in a Deluxe Suite in the original watchtower. Because the rooms have been created within the historic structure, the layouts can vary considerably. When I first walked into ours, I wasn’t sure I loved it. It felt a little choppy, with a separate sitting area, a hallway leading to the bathroom, and then the bedroom beyond. Within a day, I had completely changed my mind.

Our suite was positioned almost like a little peninsula in the tower, with windows on both sides and completely different views. On one side, we looked toward the water and trees and woke every morning to waves against the rocks and what seemed like hundreds of birds chirping outside. On the other, we overlooked the bay and Bar La Torre. Around 5:00 each evening, we’d hear the pianist begin to play below our window. We’d leave it open while we got ready and eventually make our way downstairs. It became one of my favorite parts of staying there.

The room itself was spotless, with beautiful linens and a recently renovated, very spacious bathroom with a large double vanity. I mention the specifics because I looked at another suite when I initially questioned ours and realized just how different the rooms can be in a historic hotel. In the end, we felt incredibly lucky with ours, and I would absolutely request the same room again.

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The drawstring pants from Sold Out NYC got the most use this week. It’s been hot and the loose fit and crisp cotton make them my grab-and-go pick. I also have them in an even lighter white poplin. Knowing the early fall months will still be plenty warm, I see these getting a lot of wear. A pair in olive is headed to me now.

I started listening to The Install with interior designers Paloma Contreras and Carolyn Gierdiere and am really enjoying their casual, opinionated conversations about design and life. Their recent “Serve, Swerve or Design with Verve” episode ventured into fashion trends, which was especially fun for me. I was intrigued by how many things they questioned are things I wear all the time: oversized button-downs, red shoes, polka dots, even flip-flops. It was a good reminder of how personal style really is, and how people whose taste you admire can see the very same thing completely differently.

I’ll be away for almost a month this fall, starting in New York, heading to the Hamptons, then Paris for two and a half weeks before going back to New York. I’m already thinking about how I’m going to make one suitcase work for all of it. A comfortable walking sneaker may be the most important decision I make, since the right pair can make or break a trip. I’m considering the Ivy sneaker in black as an option (I’ll need more than one pair of sneakers) and starting to think about the other pieces that can do double duty across very different kinds of days. More on what I’m packing as I get closer.

A cashmere t-shirt is a two-fold win for me. It makes sense for Southern California, is easy to layer under a jacket, and is a good way to add a little color without committing to an entire sweater. I especially like this bright orange-red with black and white and rich brown suede, whether it’s picked up in a casual jacket, a shoe, or a tote.

I ventured into a different nail color this week, a pale pinky beige from Londontown, and immediately missed my tried-and-true Nail Illuminator. Thankfully, nail polish is about as low commitment as change gets.

I rotate through several foundations and skin tints, but ILIA Super Serum Skin Tint SPF 40 is one I keep coming back to. I have it in three shades. The combination of makeup, skincare and SPF makes it especially good for everyday wear.

I’m at the six-week mark using Calecim hair serum and am seeing a difference, particularly along my hairline and around my temples. It’s promising enough that I’m going to do another full six-week protocol and see if the improvement continues.

I started remodeling my sons’ bedrooms earlier this year and am finally filling in the missing pieces: rugs, furniture, lighting and mirrors. With little luck locally, I’ve been shopping online and finding plenty at Lulu and Georgia, The Expert, Perigold, Nicky Kehoe, Amber Interiors, Elsie Green, and McGee & Co.. A very specific search for a mirror to conceal a jib door led me to the Witt Floor Mirror by Heidi Caillier, and I’m considering the Longton Mantel Mirror by Ginny Macdonald for another room. I’ve also narrowed down sconces to Mark D. Sikes and Hudson Valley. For sites with enormous inventories like Perigold, I find it much easier to shop collections by designers I already know, like Amber Lewis. Everything I’m considering is saved in For the Home.

My equivalent of spring cleaning is a fall refresh. Along with editing my closet, I go through sleepwear, lingerie, socks and all those basics I never particularly enjoy shopping for. I usually make it easy and reorder what I already know I like, although occasionally I’ll try something new, like this mesh bra, which has quickly found its way into regular rotation. None of this is particularly exciting to shop for, but there’s something very satisfying about opening a drawer and finding all those fresh replacements.

Last week I saw the term “vacation costume” on Instagram, used as a warning against buying clothes on vacation that lean too heavily into the style of a place. That’s exactly what I want to buy, especially at the beach. Some of my favorite cover-ups, straw bags and summer pieces have come home with me from trips. They’re unique, usually unavailable online, and become part of what I pack the next time I go somewhere warm. To me, that’s a pretty great souvenir.

I posted daily on Instagram during my recent trip to France and had several requests to detail the itinerary. What started off as a whim of an idea to see Elton John in Paris turned into a family vacation extending to St. Tropez and Cap Ferrat. In this post, I’m sharing some highlights from our four days in Paris with a focus on dining and our lovely hotel. With literally pages of restaurants friends shared with me yet limited time, I narrowed my options by location and cuisine. I wasn’t interested in fine dining establishments on this trip preferring a casual atmosphere and authentic ambience that spoke to location.

Restaurant Highlights:

Girafe: With an outdoor terrace facing the Eiffel Tower, excellent service and superb food (a focus on seafood), you can't miss here. Girafe is still very much on everyone's restaurant list. Reservations are accepted two weeks prior to dining date and I recommend the hotel concierge book the table for timeliness. Along with the view, the people watching was top notch and the Joseph Dirand designed interiors are stunning.

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I’ve always liked mixing the past and present, styling an old piece I’ve owned forever with something new in a way I hadn’t previously considered. It’s about updating the uniform. It might mean polished next to casual, a high-low mix of jewelry, worn-in denim with a recently purchased shoe, or reworking an all-black look to match today’s mood. Mostly, it’s the finishing touches that bridge the two.

I’ll start with thinking about what I can add to the clothes I’ve been wearing all summer. Instead of a striped linen or poplin shirt with white jeans, I’ll reach for one in mocha brown or plaid. All shades of brown are already on my mind as a color I want to focus on for fall, so bringing it in now feels like an early preview of what’s ahead.

I’ve tested this pairing a few times recently with an all black outfit - poplin pants and a tee - worn with brown Mary Janes and a tote, both in beautiful matte suede. The color and texture added depth to an otherwise basic look.

Another area on my radar is belts with prominent, sculptural buckles. It’s a small detail, but one that can completely change an outfit I’ve worn countless times. My makeup is ready for updating too. I’ve just started using the Westman Atelier concealer which has pushed all others to the bottom of the pile. For my skin texture, it’s perfect. Disappears and is creaseless. A new foundation I spot use is just enough to keep my hyperpigmentation at bay. And a Westman Atelier blush duo in the prettiest shade of peachy pink and tawny beige has been my go to for the last month. I'm also looking at how the colors I've reached for most this summer, especially pink, can be carried forward into the next season. Pink and brown is a striking combination.

I take a similar approach with this edit at home. By mid-August, the light in the house has shifted. The late-afternoon sun comes in stronger, hitting rooms and objects in ways I haven’t noticed in months. Long shadows and a golden glow make me see things a little differently. I’ll start tweaking little vignettes around the house, adding or removing, pairing old with new, editing in much the same way as my wardrobe.

After decades of antiquing and collecting, there’s no way for me to have everything on display at once. An armoire and a few drawers are used for storage of the overflow. When I’m interested in rearranging things, I’ll go through those items before I buy anything new. I’ll find an older object I’d overlooked and think about where it could be best placed or what it could be paired with to give it presence. A small piece of art can feel more important propped on an easel (I have several small easels doing this work throughout the house). An object that would disappear into the back of a bookshelf might benefit from a petite lamp nearby. A stack of books and a vase might be better gathered on a tray. They’re slight adjustments that make me view my home in a different way.

originally posted February 2022

I’m impressed with a number of resale sites that have elevated the shopping experience for pre-owned clothing. With detailed descriptions of the garments, full measurements, and high quality photos, I’ve been able to shop comfortably and with confidence. Gone are the days when “vintage” online shopping was sketchy. The new sites are polished and present editorials much like Net-a-Porter or Mytheresa. Kern_1 (where I purchased the above jacket), ReSee, Reluxe (closed), and RARCHIVE (closed) carefully curate inventory that’s exciting to peruse. I love the hunt and uniqueness of a previously owned garment knowing when I style it, the look will be my own.

Here are just a few of my current favorites from the above sites:

Shopping used to be one of my favorite pastimes, but most of that enthusiasm has faded over the years. The excitement returns, though, when I’m looking for something special, an investment piece I’ve put thought into and know I’ll treasure for years. Chanel clothing gives me that feeling again.

I started collecting Chanel jackets several years ago. They felt like a more interesting purchase than adding another bag to my collection. You rarely see the same Chanel jacket worn on several women, which makes it feel personal. My first jacket was vintage, and it felt like I struck gold when I snapped it up on Kern1 (they used to sell first come, first served, which was a challenge given they’re based in Europe). I learned a few things from that purchase: sizing, fit, and perhaps most importantly, the fabric. The shape of the jacket I bought had a slight dropped shoulder, which at the time was not what I wanted in a Chanel jacket. The silhouette had a bit of swing that I didn’t recognize from the listing details. But the fabric was what kept me from wearing it more than once. It was a heavy wool with a yarn-like trim that felt more appropriate in a winter setting than any given day in California. I eventually sold it on Vestiaire with no loss (the beauty of Chanel). The lessons learned made me a keener shopper for pre-owned, and when new listings pop up, I read every detail before I add to cart.

In-store purchases are a much better experience. Trying the jackets on, getting a feel for the fit and how they fall, feeling the hand of the fabric and seeing the details up close makes for a very tempting situation, especially when all the pieces fall into place. With each purchase, I’ve gained a little more knowledge and have been able to narrow my focus on what I like.

The most important consideration is choosing a jacket I’ll actually wear, not just admire on a hanger. I look for something suited to California’s mild climate and will pass on anything too formal. I’ve learned that a Chanel jacket, or any fitted, tailored piece like it, looks best on me with something casual underneath. Trousers make it feel buttoned up, even aging. Jeans or khakis keep it true to my style.

I’m not a seasonal Chanel shopper with a wishlist of items; I prefer to occasionally visit a boutique to see what’s available at the moment. Just like with handbags, many exceptional pieces are kept off the floor, so I’ll look around first and then ask what else they have in my size. There’s a bit of excitement in seeing what hidden gems are brought to the fitting room.

The resurgence in Chanel’s popularity since Matthieu Blazy’s appointment as artistic director feels warranted. There’s a freshness to what he’s doing that honors the codes of the house without feeling bound by them. The signatures are all there, but the way they’re styled and worn feels approachable, more relaxed and very much of the moment. It’s recognizably Chanel, now seen through a new lens. Perhaps that’s what has reinvigorated my own interest, particularly in pre-owned. With the price of new pieces continuing to climb, I’ve found myself shopping the older collections more than ever and discovering pieces that feel every bit as current today.

I realize there can be some hesitation around buying pre-owned, particularly when it comes to authenticity, but I’ve only had good experiences. I’ve purchased from Kern1, which specializes exclusively in Chanel, HEWI (Hardly Ever Worn It), 1stDibs, The RealReal, and ReSee, and have been very pleased with all of them.

Below are a few jackets I’ve owned over the years, along with some thoughts on why they did or didn’t work for me.

This is probably my all-time favorite shape. The collarless cardigan style with a high armhole is the best fit for me. I was initially attracted to the color, but the lightweight fabric was an even bigger draw. I also like the simplicity of the silver buttons, a nice change from the gold on many of my other jackets. The color and texture look great with jeans and are especially interesting with khaki. I’ve also worn this casually with white poplin or linen pants.

This is my only long Chanel jacket and the fabric is more like a knit, although I treat it as a jacket. I wear it with the buttons at the chest and waist fastened, leaving the rest undone at the top and bottom. It needs that bit of shape, especially with the longer length. I pair it most often with jeans, but a casual pant has worked too. The buttons are especially beautiful, dark charcoal wood with hammered silver detailing.

I only wore this jacket a couple of times before realizing it never really felt like me. The purple tweed was surprisingly flat and lacked the texture and dimension that usually makes a Chanel jacket so interesting. The faceted stone buttons didn’t suit my style either. It’s one of several Chanel jackets I’ve bought and eventually sold over the years, and fortunately, never at a loss.

Buttons are one of the details I pay close attention to on a Chanel jacket. The craftsmanship, interesting materials and designs that change from season to season make them an important part of the overall design. They often tell a story through the motifs, while the details help give each piece its character.

I rarely shop at home and would rather take the time when traveling. If I find something, it becomes a memory from the trip rather than simply another purchase. I bought this jacket on a trip to New York.

I always browse with an open mind and am often surprised by what I settle on. I’ll ask what’s available in my size and see what the sales associate brings out. This shape, with a cropped sleeve and an edge-to-edge closure, has become one of my favorite styles. I also like the subtle use of buttons.

KERN1 elevates the pre-owned shopping experience like no other. The jackets are beautifully packaged, always with a lovely note included about the history of the piece. I selected this one for its boxy, loose shape and the soft wool crepe fabric. Despite the wide grosgrain trim, it still feels casual on. The gold coin buttons with loop closures are a beautiful finishing detail.

A classic collarless, cardigan-style jacket in black was the hardest for me to track down. They’re often accounted for well before they reach the stores. Initially, I hesitated because of the metallic thread, concerned it might feel too dressy, but I’ve ended up loving it. I am usually a 38 and had to have this one slightly tailored.

Before shopping these or any resale sites, I’d recommend a visit to a Chanel boutique to confirm your size and get a sense of the fits you like. My complete edit of pre-owned Chanel jackets is linked at the bottom of the post, with a few favorites below. Since most are one-of-a-kind, availability can change quickly.

SHOP ALL PRE-OWNED CHANEL

updated 2026

I took a break from fashion while traveling in March. I wore a uniform almost every day, and if you follow me on Instagram, you probably saw the look: jeans, sweaters, sneakers and boots, finished with patterned scarves, a rotation of coats, and a black cashmere beanie I wore on repeat. I only wish I’d packed it in a few more colors. Committing to a uniform made getting dressed a breeze.

Even though I wasn’t focused on my own outfits, I still enjoyed noticing what everyone else was wearing. Spotting stylish women on the streets and beautifully curated window displays provided plenty of inspiration to file away for later.

For starters, my favorite looks were simple monochromatic outfits punctuated with an unexpected color. A blue bag, orange scarf, or green coat added sophistication to an otherwise all-black outfit. But it was burgundy that felt the freshest to me, especially in bags and shoes. Loose white or ivory jeans paired with black boots and a slouchy knit looked equally chic. Jeans in general were relaxed, either cropped to reveal a sock or long enough to break over the shoe. A classic look I’ll never tire of was a navy blazer with dark jeans, a crossbody bag, and loafers, often finished with socks that were either tonal or a bright pop of color. For evenings when denim felt too casual, the palette remained much the same, with the addition of a silk blouse or metallic knit paired with tailored high-waisted trousers or a midi skirt, a bold earring, and a swipe of red lipstick.

For those asking what to pack for upcoming trips to Paris and beyond, the looks described above can be recreated at any price point and worn throughout spring and well into fall.

I've also updated several related travel style and packing posts with current recommendations and shopping links. You'll find them below:

THE COLOR STORY

I’d start with those colors as the foundation, then adjust the fabrics, silhouettes, shoes, and accessories to suit the destination. The palette doesn’t need to change. The pieces do. From there, creating monochromatic looks and combining pieces becomes straightforward. This is a theme I return to again and again because it works. Rather than packing individual outfits, I build around a color story. When nearly everything works together, there are fewer decisions to make and more outfit combinations than the number of clothes I’ve packed.

THE CORE PIECES

I rarely need to shop specifically for a trip. Instead, I start with the wardrobe I already own, choosing familiar favorites I know I’ll feel comfortable wearing. From there, I edit. Before anything goes into the suitcase, I try it on. I’ll test different combinations to see how versatile each item can become. The goal isn't to create specific looks. It's to build a functional travel wardrobe that gives me plenty of options.

TOPS

I begin with a white and a black t-shirt, a couple of button-down shirts, one or two blouses, and a lightweight sweater. Depending on the destination, I’ll add a tank for layering. I don’t think in terms of day tops and evening tops. I want the same shirt to work for both with just a change of shoes, jewelry, or a jacket. A white T-shirt goes with anything and is the most versatile piece to dress up or down. A button-down can be worn as a shirt jacket, open over a tank, or layered over a swimsuit. A blouse dresses up the same bottoms I’ve been wearing all day. The fewer specialty pieces I pack, the more combinations I have.

BOTTOMS

I tend to rely on three or four bottoms that can handle almost everything the trip requires. Usually that means jeans in white and blue, a black pant (could also be denim depending on the trip), and one or two seasonal additions, whether that’s a linen pant (wearing above), shorts, or a skirt.

Just as with tops, I want every bottom to work with nearly every shirt I’ve packed. But the most important thing is that they can be worn with all of the shoes I packed. That’s a quick way for me to edit.

JACKETS

I love having a variety of jackets with me not only for changes in the weather, but because they're often what alters the look of an outfit the most. I’ll pick a couple of blazers, usually black and camel, a casual day jacket, and a lightweight trench or raincoat. Each serves a different purpose, and together they cover just about every need. I used to edit this category ruthlessly, but I’ve learned over the years this is where I like having the greatest variety. This previously published post talks about the versatility of styling a blazer for travel.

SHOES

I put a lot of thought into the shoes I pack, choosing only the pairs that serve a purpose throughout the trip. Comfortable walking shoes, sneakers, flat sandals, and, if the destination calls for it, one slightly dressier option will cover all of my needs. Mary Janes and boat shoes have been my go-tos on several of my most recent travels. Rather than packing a different shoe for every outfit, I’d rather repeat a favorite pair and let my clothing and accessories change the look. For a longer trip, I’ll often double up on the shoes I wear the most, adding multiple flat sandals since they take up very little room.

BAGS

I choose bags based on how I’ll use them throughout the trip. A crossbody is my everyday bag, and a smaller bag is reserved for dinner and evenings out. A Loewe pouch that can be worn with or without a strap has proved to be incredibly useful. If I’m away for a longer trip, I’ll pack a second small bag, maybe in a color, simply to change things up.

Whatever bag I ultimately bring needs to be lightweight, easy to pack, and not take up unnecessary space. Lately, I’ve been storing them in the bottom compartment of my carry-on Lo & Sons tote. (Use ANOTEONSTYLE15 for 15% off)

THE EXTRAS

This is where a neutral wardrobe becomes interesting. Hats, jewelry, scarves, and belts can completely alter the mood of an outfit without changing the foundation.

I’ll add pearls or a colorful beaded necklace to a tee just as easily as I would a blouse for dinner. The same necklace can feel understated when worn alone or become a focal point when layered. I wear scarves around my neck not only for style but also to keep the sun off my chest. Lately, I’ve been tying one at the waist, and it becomes the defining feature of an otherwise neutral look. A belt can have the same effect, adding shape and changing the overall feel of familiar clothes. To keep the sun off my face, hats are an absolute essential for me. If I ever forget to pack one, it'll be the first thing I buy when I arrive.

This is a follow up to a previous post on Style Inspiration Abroad. The classic trio I described – jeans, loafers and a navy blazer – resonated with many of you so I’m furthering the discussion taking that look though spring and beyond with a focus on the navy blazer. In June last year, we traveled to Paris and I was grateful to have a blazer with me for cool evenings and breezy days. A black blazer works just as well but I think navy feels a little more fresh for the season. Lots of styling options below:

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SIMILAR: pique knit blazer, jeans, silk scarf, bag, loafer, socks

SIMILAR: blazer, top, white tank, stripe pants, khaki trousers, raffia bag, flat sandals

SIMILAR: navy blazer, ecru dress, silk scarf, bag and black loafers, raffia bag and flat sandal for a more casual look

SIMILAR: navy blazer, white pants, flat, burgundy bag, white or navy top (as before)

SIMILAR: navy blazer, jeans, flat sandal, striped knit, bag

All items are interchangeable. The scarf works with every look, the bags can be swapped depending on occasion, sandals or loafers dictated by weather, all tops go with all bottoms. Everything anchored by the navy blazer. If this were in my suitcase, the only thing I’d add are a pair of sneakers.

I'm catching up on the week by going through some of the questions that come in after I post an Ask Me Anything story, plus whatever lands in my DMs on top of that. Sometimes the answers are posted for everyone, but if I reply directly to the sender, no one else sees it. I think the majority are worth sharing with a broader audience, so I'm pulling some together here for anyone not on Instagram or who missed the story. Style and travel are the themes lately, with a bit of additional commentary.

STYLE

Do you have a background in fashion?

I’ve always loved fashion, though not so much from a design perspective as from the creativity of styling. Most of my inspiration has come from observation, noticing how people dress, what makes a look memorable, the interiors that leave an impression, and the sense of discovery that comes with travel. I’ve been drawn to those things since I was a teenager. That interest led me to study art history, then fashion at FIDM, followed by a career as a buyer and later a retail consultant. Interior design came later, which felt like a natural extension in creativity. Now all of those interests have merged into A Note on Style.

What’s on your fall wishlist?

There's no single thing on my list at the moment, but based on what I've been wearing this summer, I can see myself continuing with a similar theme: relaxed pants, sweaters in unexpected colors, flat Mary Janes. If something new comes along in a bag or accessory, I’m interested. I always have my eye out for lightweight pieces in a dark palette, like this brown linen shirt. It's the only way I feel like I'm participating in the season while the temperature is still warm out. I've wishlisted a suede and leather jacket, but I’m not ready to buy.

Need a lightweight travel pant that’s comfortable on a long flight, not denim.

I just tried these from Ruti and see why everyone loves them. They're roomy, soft, comfortable enough to sleep in on a plane, and not too hot. They’re currently 20% off and available in other colors and lengths. They're also great beyond travel and would have plenty of wear time at home. For something with a little more structure and shape, Ann Mashburn's Lara pants are unbeatable. Fantastic fit. For travel, I stick to black, which is the most versatile to style once I’ve landed and unpacked.

White dresses to wear in the city, to work, or for travel. A little structure and coverage. Nothing too young, bohemian.

Look for clean, classic silhouettes that feel timeless rather than trend-driven, in a fabric with enough weight to feel substantial, not sheer or flimsy. Most of these hit below the knee, which keeps them polished for daytime. These are pieces I’d wear to lunch, a museum, running errands in the city, anywhere I want to look put together without trying too hard. None of them feel too young.

What are your favorite sweaters for summer?

I have a few I’m loyal to. When I find a style I like, I double up. That’s the case with La Ligne, Sold Out NYC, and Demylee. The fit, fabric and color selection keep me coming back for more.

Look at La Ligne Mini Marina (also in a longer length), Sold Out NYC Favorite Crew (great neckline and shape), and Demylee Washed Vintage for a heavier cotton. My favorite lightweight knit is also from Demylee and can lean dressy if needed.

I like the ivory bag you've been wearing, but I'd want it in a different color. What would be your top picks?

The light blue is very tempting. It’s beautiful for summer and an easy way to dip into color without a heavy price tag. For fall, the brown is a lovely choice. Side note: you have the option to select silver or gold hardware.

Favorite T-shirt.

Easy. Sold Out NYC Iconically Soft Perfect Tee. Good drape, weight, neckline, length. It’s perfect. I have it in black too. I also like COS Clean Cut tee when I want something with more structure and weight. Those are the two I repeatedly wear.

Can you recommend a comfortable sandal with a medium heel?

Two things I look for in this category of sandal: a secure strap and block heel. Any of the above would satisfy that requirement. Margaux is my go-to brand for comfort. I haven't had a miss yet. The Deia woven thong with a 2" block heel feels very of the moment, while the Paloma is a classic. The brown suede is beautiful combined with the 2.5" stacked wood heel. The Miss Jane sandal is part of the Christian Louboutin core collection. It's a simple, wearable classic that comes in a number of colors, with a higher heel if I want the extra lift. I'm always looking for good options to wear with wide-leg jeans or trousers when I want a little height. These would all work.

Any tips on how to choose a colorful necklace and recommendations under $1,000?

A few of my favorites are from Zoe Chicco, Lizzie Fortunato, and Dorsey, but the most important thing is finding the color that works best for your skin tone. Pale stones are lost on me, so I’m always eyeing a strong color or something with sparkle. Then consider the length. I like them all stacked pretty close together, not layered down my chest. This summer, I’ve been enjoying green malachite. It looks beautiful with everything I’ve been wearing lately, and adds a little excitement to basic neutrals and black and white.

TRAVEL

What should I wear on a Ritz cruise from Venice to Rome in early October?

Focus on two colors anchored with black, so everything works together without much thought. During the day, I'd wear jeans or relaxed pants with a shirt and a sweater, sneakers, or a comfortable boot with a lug sole. In the evening, swap the sweater for a pretty blouse, add a scarf, and let jewelry pull it all together. For outerwear, I'd pack a lightweight jacket, a stylish puffer, a coat, and something to handle any rain. A black blazer works with everything from dresses or trousers to jeans during the day. A pair of easy slip-on flats for time on the ship is key. I've been on a number of cruises and I end up wearing them almost all the time.

What airport concierge service did you use in Europe? And why?

I used Paradigm for the first time in Italy and highly recommend them. With the long lines reported across the EU this year from the new EES system, and not knowing how up to date Naples airport would be with it, I wanted the extra help. They had strong relationships with local airport staff and walked us to the front of the passport control line after they greeted us at the plane. On departure, they guided us through VAT. We were taken to the front of the line, and our guide handled all the discussion with the VAT and customs agents to keep everything moving quickly. We bypassed a maze of people in the security line and were escorted to the front of passport control, where we were finished within minutes.

Is your Dolomites guide almost ready?

Yes! You can read it here: My Notes from the Dolomites

What travel tote do you use?

A Lo & Sons tote has become a new favorite. I've carried one from Briggs & Riley for years and wasn't shopping for a new one, but Lo & Sons gifted me their Weekender Duffel. There are a few advantages I appreciate: it's slightly larger and spacious inside, it has a more finished look overall, and there's an additional compartment at the bottom where I keep anything I won't need to access on the flight but don't want in checked luggage: designer bags, jewelry, anything special. It works just as well for shoes or laundry.

Favorite luggage brand.

Briggs & Riley. I've used their luggage for years and it's been reliable, I see no reason to change. I have both a carry-on and a checked size. I stick with a traditional top-opening design rather than a clamshell. It's easier to unpack, sits well on a luggage rack, and makes better use of the space inside.

Suggestions for a messenger bag for Europe with no visible logo. Under $500 please.

I've been wanting to temporarily retire my Prada nylon messenger and I'm looking for the same. The Lo & Sons is my top pick because it comes with different straps to wear the bag as a crossbody, shoulder bag, or short, clutch-like bag for evening. It has no visible logo and is $198. I'd also look at Rains, Longchamp, and if you're leaning toward luxury, The Row.

Favorite travel earrings that work day or night.

I've found myself wearing smaller earrings lately. Since I usually layer necklaces, I don't want my earrings competing with them. My newest find is a beautiful pair of lab-grown diamond drop earrings that look perfect with everything. They add just enough sparkle to a nighttime look but stay quiet enough for daytime wear. For a barely-there style, I wore simple gold or mini pave hoops throughout Italy.

Where did you go in Italy recently? What were the hotels?

We stayed on the coast starting in Ischia, then Porto Ercole, and ended in Forte dei Marmi. We spent between five and six nights in each. It was one of my favorite trips and I’m ready to go back!

• Mezzatorre, Ischia

• Il Pellicano, Tuscany

• La Pensione America, Forte dei Marmi

Tap each of the locations above to see the photos saved in my Instagram Highlights.

PERSONAL

Fragrance help. Prefer something light.

For day, I wear Salt and Stone's Saffron and Cedar mist. It's fresh without being heavy. But for evening, I prefer a little more depth and warmth and am still using Maison d’Etto I-Dream, it's earthy but floral. Both brands offer discovery-size travel kits (Salt and Stone, Maison Detto) to test a few scents before committing.

Skincare routine?

I keep it pretty simple with a routine of essentials: vitamin C, retinol, and sunscreen, and then layer in whatever else my skin needs at the time.

When I travel, I indulge in sugar, wine, or anything that looks good, and that always takes a toll on my skin. After returning from this last trip, I saw a noticeable difference. My skin looked parched and a little spotty. I added a Natura Bisse serum to my routine to help with hydration, and I’ve seen some plumpness return. I’ve also been using Coleman Compound off and on for about a year to address stubborn brown spots, and it’s made a difference. I started back up again in July.

The non-negotiable is sunscreen, specifically La Roche-Posay UV Mune SPF. It’s hands down the best sunscreen, the strongest, and I can wear it, be out in the sun, and not get any tan lines, so I know it’s working.

How is your hair responding to the Colecim hair system? Are you noticing a difference?

I’m using the serum as directed, twice a week with the derma stamper. I’m giving it a full six weeks before drawing any conclusions. It’s too soon to tell yet. I’m still waiting on my Celluma Mystique LED mask to ship, should have it by the end of July. Its unique (currently one-of-a-kind) design treats hair loss alongside overall skin health, so I’m curious to see how it performs once it arrives. Lots of questions about the product can be answered here.

In the meantime, I’m going through an odd phase of brittle strands that are easily broken. I’ve dropped all bond repair products, which may be the culprit. Instead, I’m using conditioning treatments (protein and silicone free) to slick back my hair any day I can get away without heat styling.

One thing I didn’t fully appreciate until that first visit was just how vast the Dolomites are. It’s easy to picture everything as fairly close together. In reality, choosing where to base ourselves was one of the biggest decisions we made, because each area felt like a completely different trip.

We divided our time to experience two distinct sides of the region, spending the first half in Cortina for access to legendary alpine lakes and dramatic peaks before moving west to Ortisei, a walkable town with cable cars running straight up to Seceda and Alpe di Siusi. It proved to be a perfect study in contrasts.

When I think of the Dolomites, it wasn’t a single hike or viewpoint that stood out most. It was the sheer scale of the landscape: soaring peaks, rolling meadows, and the sound of cowbells that left a lasting impression. To really appreciate it, we chose a slower pace. Most days revolved around one memorable activity rather than trying to fit in several. Afternoons ended in the spa, followed by an unhurried dinner. This was the daily rhythm, and it suited me perfectly.

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I’ve been thinking a lot about color lately.

Not just wearing more of it on vacation, but finding ways to make it feel like me once I’m back home.

This blazer from L’AGENCE is a good example. Before this summer, I probably would have admired the color and kept scrolling. Now, it’s exactly the kind of piece that catches my eye because I’m starting to see color differently.

The golden tone reminds me of the yellow pants I’ve been reaching for lately, but in a silhouette that feels just as at home with denim now as it will with richer browns, olives, and chocolate tones this fall. That’s what I’m finding myself drawn to more and more—pieces that introduce color without feeling seasonal or limiting.

Sometimes you unpack more than what’s in your suitcase. You come home seeing your own closet a little differently.

Once I started looking at color differently, I realized I was paying more attention to the finishing touches, too.

A gold mesh Mary Jane is probably a shoe I would have overlooked not that long ago. Now I'm drawn to the texture as much as the color. It catches the light without overpowering an outfit, and somehow feels just as natural with denim as it would packed for a trip.

The leopard pouch is another favorite. I've always considered leopard a neutral, and paired with the warm gold of the blazer it adds another layer of interest without making the outfit feel busy.

The newest addition to my jewelry stack has been these oversized Baroque pearls from Lizzie Fortunato. I've always enjoyed layering necklaces, often with colorful beads, but these have become a favorite for a different reason. The bright white feels unexpectedly fresh against a white T-shirt and denim. It's a combination that lets the pearls make a statement while the casual pieces keep them from ever feeling too formal.

My Edit

A few pieces that capture the same feeling.

• L’AGENCE linen blazer and shorts, Ulla Johnson and pants, and on sale in velvet,

• Liffner leopard clutch, Toteme, Alaia, and Loeffler Randall

• Alaia gold mesh flats (also silver) - other styles here, here, and comfort brands for lots of walking: here and here

• Lizzie Fortunato Baroque pearls

• Pants: Chan Lu Bronze taffeta (sage is pretty too), Reformation, Ulla Johnson moss/gold pant, La Ligne pale yellow pants, Leset satin, J.Crew sage charmeuse

• Browse the complete edit →

And to everyone asking about the sold out Otted’ame pants, Zara has a few good options. The center style is so close!

Colorful Sweaters & Drawstring Pants

If I had to point to two additions that have quietly changed the way I’ve been getting dressed this summer, it would be colorful sweaters and drawstring pants. Neither is particularly trend-driven, but together they've made my wardrobe feel lighter, more relaxed, and current.

Living on the coast means sweaters are part of my wardrobe year-round. Cool mornings and evenings are common all summer, so they’re always within reach. This year, though, I’ve found myself choosing them in vibrant greens, warm yellows, and bright pinks rather than my usual neutrals. They’re an easy way to introduce color without feeling overdone.

The other piece that’s become a summer staple is the drawstring pant. What makes it so versatile is the silhouette. In linen or cotton poplin, it’s perfect for everyday wear. In silk or another refined fabric, it becomes an effortless option for dinner or an evening out.

Together, these two pieces refresh the wardrobe I already own. They add a little more color, ease, and personality without changing the foundation of my style.

Previewing the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale

As I was looking through what’s included in the sale, I realized I shop it very differently than I used to.

Now it’s mostly about stocking up on things I’d be buying anyway. Since many of those items tend to sell out early, I save them to a wishlist during the preview so I’m ready when my shopping window opens.

I’ve already saved a Flamingo Estate candle, one of my favorite Byredo scents in a set, the La Ligne sweater I own in several colors, and the Hoka and New Balance sneakers I routinely buy. I’m sure I’ll add several beauty products to the list. There are a handful of brands I use regularly, and some of them are bundled into sets, which are perfect for travel, gifts, or simply replenishing products I know I’ll use. And as I continue to add more color to my wardrobe, I'll keep an eye out for pieces that feel like a natural fit.

I’ll keep adding to my wishlist over the next few days and share the pieces that make the cut.

When I was planning for Italy, I put a little more thought into what I'd pack. It had been years since I'd taken a trip centered almost entirely around the beach and the coast, and I knew it called for a different wardrobe. I pictured where we'd be staying, how we'd spend our days, what the weather might be like, and the pieces I'd want to have with me so I'd feel comfortable and like myself. I also had memories from a trip to Capri and Sardinia more than thirty years ago. The distinctly Italian style I saw there left a lasting impression that undoubtedly influenced what made it into my suitcase this time.

Now that I’m home, what stands out most isn’t what I packed. It’s what I actually wore. Certain pieces became the foundation of my wardrobe while others barely left the hanger. Looking back, it’s clear what worked and what didn’t, and I learned far more from living in those clothes for three weeks than I did from all the planning beforehand.

Wherever I travel, I arrive with an idea of how I’ll dress, then the destination takes over. The pace of life, the morning to evening light, how a day unfolds, and the overall atmosphere begin to influence what feels right to wear. In Italy, I found myself embracing color, print, and shorts, a departure from how I normally dress at home. It felt more like me than I expected.

Color Felt Right

A pair of yellow pants (similar) quickly became a favorite, not because they were particularly unusual, but because they felt so right there. At Mezzatorre, with the warm terracotta buildings, the glow of candlelit paths, and the deep blue sky, they felt like an extension of the surroundings rather than a statement piece. Every evening we'd settle in for aperitivo on the terrace, surrounded by all that beauty, and somehow every color I wore looked as though it belonged there.

The same was true of a printed sarong skirt I bought while I was there. I spotted it in the Issimo shop at the hotel on the first day of the trip and couldn’t get it out of my mind. Once I tried it on, I knew it was coming home with me. I loved the style so much I bought two different prints. They both capture the spirit of an Italian summer and will always remind me of this trip.

I packed a pink cashmere sweater as an afterthought in case it was cool and it got more wear than I would have imagined. It was draped over my shoulders or tied around my waist more times than I could count. I wish I'd packed a couple more in different colors. A yellow or green knit would have been nice to have.

My bright red bag somehow made every outfit feel more intentional. Even when I was wearing nothing more than a striped shirt and white shorts, that little pop of color changed the whole look. It made me realize one colorful bag wasn't enough.

I extended the same approach to color with jewelry, reaching for malachite or green enamel necklaces and strands of red jasper beads almost every day. A bold green Irene Neuwirth ring (similar) stacked with gold bands never looked better.

I never imagined I’d get so much mileage from a handful of colorful pieces. I stopped overthinking combinations and simply wore what I was drawn to. That method of dressing will stay with me when packing for future trips. Instead of more clothes, I’d like more colorful finishing pieces. A few sweaters or scarves to tie around my shoulders or waist, another bag or two in unexpected colors, and jewelry that brings a little life to the simplest outfit. Those were the pieces that transformed everything else I packed.

I Didn’t Wear Much Black

At home, black is second nature for me. It's a huge part of my wardrobe and the foundation of many of my everyday uniforms. I reach for it without thinking.

I packed black linen tops, shorts, and pants because I assumed I'd wear them just as often in Italy. I didn't. In other parts of Italy, particularly the cities, they would have felt completely appropriate. Along the coast, though, they never seemed quite right. Against the vivid blue sea, colorful umbrellas, lush landscape, and warm evening light, I found myself naturally reaching for color.

The exception was a pair of lightweight drawstring poplin pants. They became my travel-day uniform for ferry rides, longer drives between hotels, or anytime I wanted to be a little more covered while still staying cool. They were polished enough to wear almost anywhere but comfortable enough to spend an entire day in.

I packed another pair in navy and wore them with the matching shirt for an easy head-to-toe look. Even though I wouldn’t consider navy a bold color, it doesn’t carry the visual weight of black. In lightweight cotton poplin, navy felt relaxed and somehow better suited to the atmosphere of the coast.

Every Place Has Its Own Uniform

One thing I hadn't thought about was how differently I'd dress depending on where we were staying. Each destination had its own uniform, shaped by how we'd spend the day.

At Mezzatorre and Il Pellicano, life revolved around the pool and beach. I'd throw on a swimsuit, slip into a cover-up, and head down to the water. Cover-ups were exactly what I needed there, and they got far more wear than I expected.

Forte dei Marmi was different. Biking became our primary mode of transportation, and that changed everything about what felt practical to wear. We'd ride into town, wander through the Wednesday market, browse the shops, and eventually make our way to the beach. Shorts and oversized shirts became my daily uniform, while cover-ups were reserved almost exclusively for afternoons at the hotel pool.

We rode our bikes to dinner most nights as well, which meant I had to think differently about what made sense to wear. Straight-leg pants were the easiest option, and I could get away with a skirt if I knotted the hem. My wide-leg palazzo pants, though, stayed in the closet. I wore them once, the evening the hotel shuttled us to Pietrasanta for dinner.

Matching Sets Were Everywhere

One thing I noticed all along the coast was matching sets. They were impossible to miss. Every shop seemed to have its own version, and they were all good. The market echoed the trend with printed silk, lace-trimmed linen, and colorful embroidered sets hanging from the stalls. They were everywhere, worn by women of all ages.

I only had a few with me, but I wore them often. Next time, I’ll bring several more. They take the guesswork out of getting dressed and become surprisingly versatile because each piece works just as well on its own. One set quickly becomes several different outfits, which is exactly what I look for when I’m traveling.

Looking back, they almost became my unofficial uniform for the Italian coast. Whether polished or casual, they captured the effortless feeling I admired everywhere we went.

I wore this set several times. I’m considering adding another in this bandana print silk.

The Essential Accessories

I was happy with the shoes I packed. One pair of athletic sneakers handled workouts and travel days. The rest of the time was a rotation of flip-flops and simple leather T-strap sandals that worked just as well for dinner as they did during the day.

I bought a pair of Jamie Haller python thongs before the trip, and they quickly became a favorite. I loved how the snake print added interest to everything I wore without feeling too bold. Best of all, they were incredibly comfortable. I'll probably buy another color.

I also like having at least one pair of closed-toe shoes with me when I travel. On this trip, I packed a Mary Jane and a loafer, and both proved useful in different situations, from dusty roads to uneven cobblestone streets.

The category I wish I’d packed more of was hats. I wore one almost every day, from breakfast until sunset. I'm fairly adamant about protecting my face, and hats solve that problem beautifully. Over the years, they've also become one of my favorite accessories. To me, they're the final punctuation mark to an outfit. They finish a look while also being the best defense against the sun and uncooperative hair.

My ivory Eric Javits fedora was probably the hardest-working piece I brought. I also own it in navy and black, and I kept wishing I’d thrown those into my suitcase for a little more variety. It's polished enough to wear beyond the beach.

When I wanted a little more coverage, I switched to an old Janessa Leone hat with a wider brim that’s been through years of travel, sunscreen, pool water, and being flattened inside suitcases. After I got home, I soaked it in the sink, reshaped it, and it still looks great. A little weathered, full of character, and exactly how I like it.

What I’ll Pack Next Time

By the end of the trip, a clear summer wardrobe for the Italian coast had emerged. I'll remember the pieces that got the most wear, the ones I reached for almost every day, and the ones that will be at the top of my packing list next time. They carried my wardrobe comfortably through several weeks in Italy.

At home, I have a small collection of pieces I set aside for resort travel. They tend to live toward the back of my closet because they're only worn occasionally. After this trip, they'll be updated. A fresh perspective from what I enjoyed wearing will shape my future packing strategy. Some of the themes will be carried into this summer’s wardrobe too. Travel has sharpened my perspective in what to wear while I’m away, but also how I view the clothes hanging in my closet.

LINKS TO ITALY LOOKS

MOST WORN

I’ll do a full packing post soon, but here’s a quick recap of a few items that got the most wear. Oversized shirts, a pink cashmere sweater, and Miu Miu moccasins were the hero pieces for this trip.

I rotated between striped and solid shirts in linen and cotton. If there was a matching short or pant, it became a favorite. Short-and-shirt sets were seen everywhere along the Italian coast across all age groups and are a look I plan on adding more of to my closet. What struck me was how unfussy they felt. Worn with flat sandals, a woven bag, or simple jewelry, they looked polished without feeling overthought. Italians seem to have a natural ease with this kind of dressing. I packed a fabulous set from L’Agence in a black-and-white stripe with gold button detailing on both the shorts and shirt (wearing here). I bought another set while there from Ottod’Ame in a dark print (no link available). And I’m going to buy the matching top to the Alix of Bohemia brown shorts I wore. I wish I’d had it for the trip. If I’d packed more sets, I would have worn them often.

But even without a matching bottom, an oversized shirt was one of the best things I packed. I tied them at the waist over high-rise shorts or skirts, let them hang open over a tank and shorts, and often used one as a cover-up at the beach. If it’s a look that interests you, With Nothing Underneath, Xirena, and SOLD OUT NYC are top contenders.

When I wasn’t wearing sandals, I rotated between an Alaia Mary Jane and a soft Miu Miu moccasin. They’re both incredibly comfortable and, if you calculate cost per wear, I’ve won. Midway through any trip, I start to appreciate the pieces that earned their place in the suitcase. Having closed-toe options that aren’t athletic, but have just enough structure to work with everything from shorts to a dinner dress, proved useful on cobblestone streets, bike rides, and long days out. Both pairs seemed to hit that sweet spot.

The Alaia are good enough for me to own additional colors (black and burgundy), and the Miu Miu is about to get a sister pair. They’ve become the shoe I slip on when running out the door and seem to work with all of my summer looks. The chalky white (sold out) is fantastic - intentionally scuffed so they don’t come off as new or pristine. I’m considering beige or butter patent leather for a more polished finish. Are they shoes I’d walk 20,000-plus steps in? No. But for a resort setting and running around town, they’re perfect.

In the same vein are the M.Gemi suede loafers. Also incredibly comfortable. The color range is fantastic too. I have the navy, which works with all of my denim pieces. Other colors to consider are latte, butter, and denim blue. That range feels like a perfect summer palette with white cropped jeans or shorts and a lightly tanned leg. Use code ANOTEONSTYLE15 for 15% off site wide.

A pink cashmere sweater became the piece that pulled every look together. Adding that singular pop of color did wonders for everything else that was basic. It's a reminder that sometimes one strong accent is more effective than a closet full of statement pieces. I don’t think I ever wore it as a pullover, instead using it as an accessory tied at the waist or draped over my shoulders on cool evenings.

The one I have is sold out from &Daughter, but there are lots of other options here and here. The same formula would work with the summer palette I packed in a Kelly green, bright yellow, or poppy red. I’m shopping for all three (red on sale).

A NEW SELF-TANNER

I feel more comfortable wearing shorts or a bathing suit when I have a light tan. I want just enough color to diffuse imperfections, veins, and the reality of 63-year-old legs that enjoyed summers basking in Bain de Soleil.

I have used EVY Technology for years and love it, but it’s not easy to get. I finished my last can on the trip and was intending to buy another six-pack (the minimum to ship to the U.S.) when I returned home. Then I remembered a brand had sent me their self-tanning product, which sat in my cabinet unused because I was sure nothing could match EVY. But I was wrong.

From SALTYFACE, I tried their Tanning Foam in the Light to Medium shade and ended up with a beautiful light brown tan. No odd color, no annoying scent, no transfer. Perfect. It will be my new go-to. It’s so comfortable on, I’ll probably use it all summer to maintain a little color that looks natural and warm.

TRAVEL TOLL ON HAIR AND SKIN

Halfway through the trip, I noticed my hair was looking dry and brittle. To be expected when I’m outside every day by the beach or pool, swimming in salt water, and showering with different water. I knew when I got home I would need to condition and repair it to get it back to a healthy-looking state.

I have a ton of masks and hair products to choose from (I get sent a lot), but I’m going with the OLAPLEX strengthening routine. Three products that are easy to work into my routine: treat, cleanse, and condition, with the goal of salon-level results. The treatment goes on pre-shampoo for three minutes. Easy. I’ll keep you posted.

Travel always takes a toll on my skin. I indulge. Eat the sugar, drink the wine, whatever I want. But as soon as I’m home, I get right back to my routine.

After this trip, my skin felt weathered and parched. I’m trying a new serum gifted from Natura Bissé and feel my skin soaking it up. After just a couple of days, I already see some of the plumpness returning and my skin feels good, which is encouraging me to continue using it. I’m layering it into my routine of essentials: Vintner’s Daughter Essence, tretinoin, Coleman Compound, and always EU SPF.

AROUND THE HOUSE

There are a few things that captured my attention on this last trip that I intend to integrate into my home. Italian interiors, particularly along the coast, have a way of feeling both polished and relaxed. Matte wicker sits comfortably next to glossy ceramics. Brass is mixed with painted wood. Nothing feels overly matched or precious. Even the colors seem drawn from the surroundings. Blues from the sea, sandy neutrals, soft greens, and sun-faded terracotta. It's a look I never tire of and one that translates surprisingly well, even in small doses. The same goes for scent. A home fragrance that recalls a favorite hotel is an easy way to extend the memory of travel. Santa Maria Novella Acqua della Regina will do that for me.