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Last week I asked you to see your hormones differently, as the protectors of your breasts and not the enemy. I also asked you to take a hard look at the chemicals you live with every day. If you have not read Part 1 yet, please start there, because today builds on it.

This week I want to get very practical with you. There are seven daily choices that I believe make the biggest difference for your breasts. None of this requires perfection. It only requires that you start.

What We Eat, Drink, and Do: How to Live a Breast-Cancer-Free Lifestyle

This is the heart of everything I want you to take from this article. Your hormones are your protectors. Your daily choices decide whether the breast stays in the environment those hormones were designed to support.

The risk created by our environment and our modern lifestyle is real. But so is your power to change it. Living a breast-cancer-free lifestyle is not that difficult once you grasp a few basic concepts. Every one of them comes back to the same idea: keep the breast in the balanced, nourished, calm environment it was designed for.

No lifestyle can promise that cancer will never develop. What the research shows clearly is that the choices I will be talking about next can meaningfully lower your risk, and many of them can improve how you feel within weeks.

For each risk factor, I have listed the actions in order of priority, starting with what the research supports most strongly.

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P.S. I’m hosting a Live Q&A for paid members on November 20th. Details are at the end of this post.

Maybe testosterone lifted your mood and your energy, and you were kind enough to send your friend to the same doctor. Her body may respond very differently, especially her heart and blood vessels, and I want to explain why.

Testosterone is somewhat considered the step-cousin of estrogen. Many women who come into a doctor’s office looking for hormone therapy after menopause are ultimately just asking about estrogen, ignoring testosterone.

But the percentage of women who come in specifically asking about testosterone is growing. So, it’s worthwhile talking about what really matters when it comes to testosterone therapy and its safety.

Four things shape how testosterone therapy affects a woman’s heart: the dose, how long she uses it, how many testosterone receptors her heart and blood vessels have, and the balance between testosterone, estrogen, and the rest of her hormones. I will cover the first three here and save the fourth for my next article.

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How the Dose Affects Your Heart

The answer depends on the woman, because each woman’s receptors respond differently. I’ll explain receptors a little later.

Physiological levels are within the range ordinarily found in women before menopause; supraphysiologic levels are above that range. Long-term cardiovascular safety has not been established, particularly for high-dose therapy creating supraphysiologic levels. Monitoring does not establish that those higher levels are safe.

There are potential implications for changes in lipid profile, possible blood pressure elevations, and possible effects on insulin resistance. I want to talk about each one of these three things because it’s important for you to know, if you’re considering testosterone therapy, how critical it is that all these three things are being looked at and monitored.

Cholesterol and Blood Fats

Your lipid profile is the blood test that measures your cholesterol and other fats in the blood.

With higher testosterone exposure, there is a possible increase in the bad cholesterol, the LDL cholesterol, and sometimes that is also accompanied by a decrease in the good cholesterol, the HDL cholesterol, which is exactly the opposite of what we want. Triglycerides, another type of fat in the blood, can also be increased in some women.

There’s a huge variability here. Testosterone formulation and differences in delivery methods and bioavailability can have different metabolic impacts.

So, it will be very, very difficult at this point to generalize and say all testosterone therapy increases risk because we don’t have that data. Bioavailability means how much of the hormone reaches the circulation.

The body is complicated, and looking at just one thing will never give us the full picture. The coexistent hormone balance, the estrogen status, the thyroid and adrenal function, and an already existent abnormal metabolic condition can modify the response of the lipid profile to testosterone therapy.

If a woman decides to use testosterone therapy combined with estrogen or alone, by itself, and her thyroid function is completely ignored, we may be missing a thyroid disorder that affects her cholesterol. That needs to be assessed and treated, too.

When it comes to testosterone’s dosing impact on lipid profile changes, I would definitely advise monitoring carefully the lipid profile at least every six months for women who are undergoing long-term testosterone therapy, and possibly sooner or more often if the testosterone dose is increased or the woman has other risk factors. Discuss that schedule with your treating physician.

Blood Pressure Changes

Higher testosterone levels or supraphysiologic doses can impact blood pressure and can cause elevations of someone’s blood pressure.

The main mechanism is thought to be due to testosterone’s effect on fluid retention and electrolyte balance. Testosterone can promote sodium reabsorption in the kidneys, and obviously water follows the sodium, so the body can start holding on to some excess water, causing some puffiness in the face, the hands, or the ankles. Excess water means increased volume in the system, which can contribute to higher blood pressure.

Women with existent high blood pressure, obese women, or women suffering from metabolic syndrome might be more susceptible to these blood pressure changes. They should have their blood pressure monitored routinely at home with a blood pressure monitor, with their physician confirming whether twice-a-day readings are appropriate.

They should keep a blood pressure log, and this blood pressure log should be recorded and brought in for every visit, so the physician can understand if there’s a need for changes in the blood pressure therapy or in the testosterone treatment.

Some fluid retention may be temporary, but new swelling or a rise in blood pressure needs assessment. Please let your physician know rather than assuming it will resolve on its own.

Insulin Resistance

Insulin resistance means the body’s cells respond less effectively to insulin, the hormone that helps regulate blood sugar.

Naturally increased testosterone levels occurring in polycystic ovary syndrome, or PCOS, are associated with insulin resistance and an unfavorable metabolic profile. However, this association between high testosterone and insulin resistance or an unfavorable metabolic profile does not necessarily prove causation because PCOS is a very complex metabolic issue. It can involve inflammation, obesity, hormonal imbalances, and a disturbed sensitivity of the insulin receptor.

An increase in lean muscle can improve glucose uptake into the cells and support an improved cellular response to insulin. That possible mechanism does not establish testosterone therapy as a treatment for insulin resistance or weight loss.

Every woman has a different lifestyle, exercise routine, body composition, and estrogen status, so the right dose is different for each of us. Monitoring specific biological markers like fasting glucose, fasting insulin, hemoglobin A1C, a lipid profile, and a comprehensive metabolic panel looking for elevations in liver enzymes is something to discuss with your physician when testosterone therapy is provided.

A1C reflects average blood sugar over the preceding few months. Which tests are useful, and how often to repeat them, depends on your clinical situation.

Why Receptor Response Matters

Testosterone acts through androgen receptors, proteins in cells that respond to its signal. This is how we obtain a biological response with various hormonal and non-hormonal therapies. We target cellular receptors.

There’s also significant individual variation in both receptor expression and receptor function, which may help explain why some women respond to testosterone therapy with cardiovascular and metabolic changes and some do not at the same levels. Receptor expression means how much of a receptor a cell makes; it can change with age and changes in the hormonal environment.

The number of testosterone receptors present in the heart and the blood vessels will vary by individual. This is not something that can be measured with a routine blood test prior to initiating testosterone therapy. And a change in blood pressure or cholesterol does not tell us how many receptors a woman has.

A woman might notice increased water retention and elevations in blood pressure. She might notice alterations in the lipid profile with an undesirable increase in LDL, the bad cholesterol, and a decrease in HDL, the good cholesterol.

Another woman may have minimal to no changes in her lipid profile or blood pressure. Receptors are one possible part of that difference; her other health conditions and the treatment itself matter, too.

How Long You Stay on Testosterone

We presume the longer the exposure to high-dose supraphysiologic testosterone, probably the higher the risk. Unfortunately, we do not have enough data to support this statement, and the cardiovascular risk is not fully clear, and we do have very limited evidence around benefits versus risks with testosterone therapy long-term in women.

Women are interested, and they want to know.

Women who experience testosterone therapy and its benefits of improved mood, improved energy, better strength, better stamina, better endurance, and better motivation to be active and exercise, as well as increased sexual desire, become believers and they would like to be in it for the long haul. Women who love testosterone for all the well-being improvements would like to know that they are safe using it for long periods of time, maybe for the rest of their life alongside an estrogen therapy.

Much of the research on testosterone therapy in women has studied low sexual desire as a primary objective. The questions women have about how many years of treatment and dosing still need answers.

Baseline risk always matters because women who already have existing cardiovascular risk factors, like obesity, hypertension, hyperlipidemia, or diabetes, may have a higher risk for cardiovascular events with ongoing exposure to supraphysiologic testosterone levels. Hypertension is high blood pressure; hyperlipidemia is elevated fats in the blood. Those risks need to be considered when deciding whether treatment is appropriate.

These underlying conditions which impact testosterone therapy risk over time will have to be managed. The diabetes, the obesity, the hypertension, the hyperlipidemia.

One Captain to Manage the Ship

Ideally, your physician will be trained in managing all of these issues. And hopefully, you just have one captain to manage the ship.

Because the more captains running your hormone therapy ship, the more likely something will get missed and not addressed promptly or appropriately.

You are now placing your trust and your care in multiple physicians. Your hormone doctor, your cardiologist, your internal medicine doctor, your rheumatologist.

And unfortunately, these doctors do not always talk to each other or cooperate with each other regarding your treatment and your safety. We physicians need to make sure that care is coordinated.

Choose a physician who can manage your testosterone therapy and also manage, or coordinate care for, the other conditions if you are a woman who has these high-risk conditions, like obesity, diabetes, hypertension, hyperlipidemia.

Please ask who is reviewing your blood pressure log and laboratory results, how often they will be reviewed, and which physician is coordinating your hormone treatment with the rest of your care.

The good news is that many of the habits that protect your heart while you are on testosterone also protect your breasts. Building muscle, keeping a healthy weight, drinking less alcohol, sleeping well, and lowering stress all help both. In tomorrow’s paid article, Part 2 of my breast health series, I will walk you through each of these and tell you what to do first.

Thank you for trusting me with your time.

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Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources & Further Reading

• Source: Global Consensus Position Statement on the Use of Testosterone Therapy for Women (Davis et al., Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 2019)

  https://doi.org/10.1210/jc.2019-01603

• Source: Safety and Efficacy of Testosterone for Women: A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis (Islam et al., Lancet Diabetes & Endocrinology, 2019)

  https://www.monash.edu/medicine/sphpm/womenshealth/research/findings/safety-and-efficacy-of-testosterone-for-women

• Source: ISSWSH Clinical Practice Guideline for the Use of Systemic Testosterone for Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder in Women (Parish et al., Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2021)

  https://academic.oup.com/jsm/article/18/5/849/6956087

Today I want to go deeper with you, because you deserve more than reassurance. You deserve the reasoning behind it.

Almost every week a woman sits across from me, exhausted, not sleeping, not feeling like herself, and she whispers the same question: “Am I going to get breast cancer from this?”

I understand that fear. For more than twenty years, women have been taught to see their own hormones as dangerous. I want to gently turn that around.

Whether you believe your body was shaped by natural evolution or designed by God, your hormones were never meant to be your enemy. They were meant to sustain you, repair you, restore you, support you, and nourish every tissue in your body. That includes your breasts.

So let’s start with what your hormones were made to do, why estrogen and testosterone are protectors rather than villains, and why testosterone deserves a very different conversation than the one we are having. Then I want to show you what really throws breast tissue out of balance, starting with the chemicals and radiation you live with every single day.

I had so much to say on this topic that I split it into two articles. Next Sunday, I will walk you through what you can do every day to lower your risk, and I will end with the takeaways I want every woman to carry with her.

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Today I want to talk about breast health when a woman is using hormone therapy, because this is one of the main concerns women have when they consider treatment for menopause.

A woman may be unable to sleep. Her hot flashes are terrible. Sex has become uncomfortable, and she doesn’t feel like herself. She wants help.

But even when she is willing to start treatment, there is still that question in the back of her mind.

“Is this going to increase my risk? Is this going to give me breast cancer?”

Women have been hearing about this concern since the Women’s Health Initiative findings made headlines in 2002. More than twenty years later, the worry is still there.

It deserves a careful answer, one that takes into account the particular therapy and the woman who is considering it.

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When Your Own History Changes the Screening Plan

One point that surprises many women is that using menopausal hormone therapy does not, by itself, put you on a separate screening schedule.

Current guidance calls for breast cancer screening according to the usual guidelines and your individual risk, including when you use hormone therapy.

The treatment still carries some breast cancer risk, so your screening plan needs to reflect your overall situation. Your family history, previous breast findings, breast density, and other risk factors still belong in the conversation.

Hormone therapy does not automatically mean you need an MRI or additional ultrasound, and any new breast symptom needs evaluation rather than waiting for the next screening appointment.

The Dog Walk That Now Helps Me Explain Estrogen and Cancer

The relationship between estrogen and breast cancer is complex. One way I explain how estrogen can affect an existing hormone-sensitive cancer is with my flower-and-weed analogy.

This came to me one day while I was walking my dog. I was looking at the plants on the side of the road and dictating notes into my phone.

Imagine you have a beautiful flower pot. A beautiful flower is in it, but it’s not doing very well. It’s withering away.

Right next to the flower, there might be a small weed that you barely notice. You don’t worry about the weed very much because you’re worried the flower is going to die.

In fact, the weed could be so small, and you could be so focused on the dying flower, that you don’t see the weed at all.

So you start watering the flower daily and applying Miracle-Gro regularly. You want to bring the flower back to life and have a beautiful pot.

The flower starts looking better. But the water and the fertilizer have also fed the little weed that was there.

In this analogy, the flower represents a woman struggling with menopausal symptoms, and the weed represents a possible existing estrogen-sensitive breast cancer.

Estrogen can relieve symptoms in the body while also stimulating the growth of certain breast cancer cells. This is why treatments that block estrogen or reduce its production are used for hormone-receptor-positive breast cancer.

Breast cancers do not all grow at the same speed. We cannot look at the timing of a diagnosis and settle the question of cause.

That is why we need to look carefully at the evidence, including what was actually studied.

The Estrogen-Only Finding That Rarely Made the News

The 2002 WHI report tested one particular regimen: oral conjugated equine estrogens combined with medroxyprogesterone acetate, a progestin. The reported increase in breast cancer risk was approximately 26% relative to placebo.

Relative risk and absolute risk describe that result differently.

In absolute terms, the trial reported approximately 38 invasive breast cancers per 10,000 women per year in the hormone group, compared with 30 in the placebo group. That was about eight additional cases per 10,000 women per year.

A woman deserves to hear both numbers. The relative increase does not mean that 26 out of every 100 women taking hormones will get breast cancer.

The smaller absolute difference still matters, especially when considering long-term treatment and a woman’s underlying risk.

We need to make another distinction. In the separate WHI trial of estrogen alone in women who had undergone hysterectomy, long-term follow-up found a lower incidence of breast cancer compared with placebo.

The combined estrogen-plus-progestin trial showed a higher incidence. These regimens differed across groups of women.

The estrogen-alone finding does not establish that all hormone therapy protects against breast cancer, or that every estrogen formulation will have the same result.

Hormone therapy is not prescribed as breast cancer prevention. And women who still have a uterus generally need a progestogen with systemic estrogen to protect the uterine lining.

Finding the Dose That Actually Works For You

Women ask me the same questions about dose and timing almost every week. They want to know if a lower dose is safer, if two years on hormones is better than ten, and if they should stop after five years to lower their risk.

Very often a woman sits down and says, “Please give me the lowest dose you have. I don’t want to raise my risk of breast cancer.”

I understand why she says it.

For more than twenty years, women have been told to fear hormones, so she wants relief without feeling like she is taking a gamble.

What I want her to know is that the lowest dose only helps if it actually works.

A dose too small to calm her hot flashes, fix her sleep, or lift her mood leaves her living with the same symptoms that brought her to me, and months of poor sleep and stress take their own toll on her body.

My goal is the dose that works for her.

We usually start low, and then we pay close attention.

We look at whether she is sleeping through the night, whether the hot flashes are easing, and whether she feels like herself again. If she is still struggling, we adjust.

Sometimes that means a different dose or a different form of hormone, sometimes a better balance of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone, and sometimes we find that something else is causing her symptoms.

There is also no expiration date on hormone therapy.

The Menopause Society does not recommend stopping just because a woman reaches a certain age or has been on hormones for a certain number of years.

With estrogen combined with a progestin, breast cancer risk does rise slowly with longer use, and as I explained above, that added risk is small. That is why we check in every year and decide together whether hormones are still serving you.

Feeling better is the whole point of treatment, and your comfort deserves as much attention as your safety.

A good hormone doctor keeps an eye on both, with you, year after year.

Your Earlier Hormone History

Your previous hormone exposure is another part of your history worth discussing. Doctors don’t always ask a woman how long she used birth control pills, and we should know that history. We should also understand what it can and cannot tell us.

Studies have found a modest increase in breast cancer risk among current or recent users of hormonal contraception. That risk generally declines after stopping.

In a large pooled analysis of oral contraceptive studies, no increased risk was apparent ten years after use ended. We cannot assume that birth control pills taken decades earlier caused cancer diagnosed after menopause. But is there a connection????

The same care is needed when a woman develops breast cancer a few years after starting menopausal hormone therapy. The timing alone cannot tell her exactly why it happened.

Her clinicians should consider her full history, and she should have room to ask questions about it.

If Breast Cancer Is Diagnosed

If breast cancer is diagnosed, the treatment conversation changes.

Systemic menopausal hormone therapy is generally avoided after breast cancer, particularly hormone-sensitive disease, and decisions about menopausal symptoms need to involve the oncology team. Symptoms may return when hormones are stopped, and women still deserve help with those symptoms.

A diagnosis can send a woman down a path of self-discovery. She may begin looking at her diet, her sleep, her stress, and the way she has been caring for herself. Those concerns deserve attention and support.

But she is not solely responsible for finding an explanation for her cancer, and she should not be left to manage all of this on her own. Often there is no single identifiable cause.

A cancer diagnosis is not proof that she failed to take care of herself.

Caring For Your Breasts Beyond the Mammogram

I want women to think about breast health beyond the mammogram appointment.

Screening can help find cancer early. It is one part of care. Physical activity, limiting or avoiding alcohol, and maintaining a healthy weight after menopause can also help reduce breast cancer risk. They cannot eliminate it.

If your sleep is poor, your stress is overwhelming, or you are struggling to eat well and move regularly, please bring that into the conversation. You deserve support with what’s affecting your daily life.

No diet, detoxification program, or hormone-balancing regimen can guarantee that cancer will never develop or return.

Before You Say Yes to Hormones

For those women agonizing over whether to start hormone therapy, I want the discussion to include what you are living with right now. Your hot flashes, your sleep, your sexual comfort, and your concerns about breast cancer all matter.

Partner with a physician who listens to your symptoms, understands your history, and is willing to revisit the plan with you.

You should understand why a treatment is being recommended, what improvement to look for, and how your health will be followed over time.

Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources & Further Reading

• The Menopause Society: The 2022 Hormone Therapy Position Statement

  https://menopause.org/wp-content/uploads/professional/nams-2022-hormone-therapy-position-statement.pdf

• National Cancer Institute: Mammograms

  https://www.cancer.gov/types/breast/screening/mammograms

• National Cancer Institute: Hormone Therapy for Breast Cancer

  https://www.cancer.gov/types/breast/treatment/hormone-therapy

• JAMA: Risks and Benefits of Estrogen Plus Progestin in Healthy Postmenopausal Women

  https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/195120

• JAMA: Association of Menopausal Hormone Therapy With Breast Cancer Incidence and Mortality During Long-term Follow-up of the Women’s Health Initiative Randomized Clinical Trials

  https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7388026/

• National Cancer Institute: Menopausal Hormone Therapy and Cancer

  https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/causes-prevention/risk/hormones/mht-fact-sheet

• The Menopause Society: Hormone Therapy

  https://menopause.org/patient-education/menopause-topics/hormone-therapy

• National Cancer Institute: Oral Contraceptives and Cancer Risk

  https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/causes-prevention/risk/hormones/oral-contraceptives-fact-sheet

• National Cancer Institute: Breast Cancer Prevention

  https://www.cancer.gov/types/breast/causes-risk-factors/prevention

• Climacteric: Global Consensus Position Statement on the Use of Testosterone Therapy for Women

  https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/10.1080/13697137.2019.1637079

Perimenopause may be the most difficult transition in a woman’s life. And here is what most women, if not all women, and everyone else gets wrong: menopause is not the transition. People treat it like one and misunderstand it as one, but menopause is the beginning of something different.

Perimenopause is the true and real transition, and it is one of the hardest transitions in a woman’s life.

Menopause means the near-total loss of estrogen and progesterone production from the ovaries. Perimenopause is the decline of ovarian function, and that decline is anything but smooth.

Please consider this: what do you believe is easier to live with?

1. The steady absence of ovarian hormones, which we now can treat very effectively? Or

2. Erratic, unpredictable surges and crashes, a hormonal roller coaster that can change from one week to the next?

It is time we understood the true cost of the perimenopause roller coaster women ride for a decade or more. Perimenopause can drive missed work, medical disability, damaged relationships and broken marriages, lost income for the entire family, and a profound toll on a woman’s mental and emotional health, not just her physical health. The numbers are already staggering. A Mayo Clinic study estimated that perimenopause and menopause symptoms cost US women $1.8 billion a year in lost work time, and $26.6 billion once medical costs are added (Mayo Clinic). The researchers noted that this figure doesn’t even count reduced hours, lost jobs or early retirement.

“You’re too young” dismissal has to stop

Doctors must let go of the belief that a woman can be too young for perimenopause. Far too many women in their 40s are denied valuable medical care because they are told they are too young to have hormone problems. Even more are told that because their periods are still regular, nothing is wrong with their hormones.

Let me be direct. A doctor who believes either of those things does not understand how the aging ovary changes a woman’s cycle, her fertility and her hormone balance from her mid-30s onward.

And that is not necessarily the doctors’ fault because after 2002, an entire generation of doctors was told hormones are bad for women and they believed it! Our medical system must offer far better education on this phase of life.

What my own fertility journey taught me

Fertility specialists know that conceiving after 40 can be extraordinarily difficult. I know it personally. I don’t have children, and IVF in my early 40s did not lead to a successful pregnancy.

That experience taught me a simple truth we need to understand far more deeply. If ovarian function is no longer strong enough for reliable ovulation and implantation, it is unlikely to support optimal hormone balance either. That means a woman’s physical, mental, and emotional health is affected, not just her fertility.

The decline in fertility after 40 is one of the clearest early signs of perimenopause. We commonly accept that the average age of menopause is around 51 to 52. NIH-funded researchers describe reproductive aging as beginning in the mid-30s (NIH Record). It is time the medical community also accepted that, for many women, perimenopause begins in the late 30s to early 40s, and treated it that way.

We cannot seriously and meaningfully address perimenopause if physicians don’t formally recognize it, and if medical training doesn’t teach doctors how to manage it.

Infertility is a health signal, not just a fertility problem

Conventional medicine has become excellent at treating fertility challenges with IVF. Every woman who wants to become a mother, and whose biology is making that difficult or impossible, should have access to it. Yet many simply can’t afford it.

The fertility market keeps growing because fertility challenges have become a serious problem. What we have failed to understand is that age-related infertility is often driven by the very same decline in ovarian function that defines perimenopause. So here is the point I want every reader and every doctor to take away: age-related infertility may be perimenopause, and it should be treated seriously as a health challenge, not just a fertility challenge.

Which raises the question I care most about: can anything restore ovarian function, or at least slow its decline? I’ll come back to that at the end of this article, because science is moving fast. First, let’s talk about what you can do right now.

Pillar 1: Reclaiming your sexual wellness

If your desire has faded, hear this first: you are not broken, and you are not alone. Somewhere between 40% and 55% of women moving through menopause report low desire for intimacy (Medical News Today).

And we don’t have a magic pill, a magic hormone, or a magic peptide to treat absent or low sex drive, for a very simple reason: It is rarely one problem, fixable by some “magic” pill, injection, spray, or cream.

Hormones, comfort, exhaustion, emotions, how you feel in your body, and your relationship with your partner all play a part. That means the solution has layers too, and those layers differ for every woman.

What can you do?

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I was about 45 when I called my boss and said that. I had been with the company for ten years.

A disagreement with one of the clinic’s managers had made me so irritated, so angry, that I burst into tears.

I am not the type of person who usually cries under stress. That was very unusual for me. But there I was, ready to make a decision that could change my life, with absolutely no plan for what came next.

My boss was a very calm, centered woman. She asked me, “Do you have a plan for what you’re going to do after you quit your job?”

“No, I don’t, and I don’t care. I’m done. I’m quitting.”

I kept going and going. I wasn’t willing to listen to anything.

She said, “Hey, take the night to think about it. Just sleep on it. Call me tomorrow. If you still want to quit, so be it.”

I went home, talked to my husband, and calmed down. I realized I was about to make a big, dramatic decision I wasn’t ready to live with.

The next day, I called my boss and apologized. I told her I wouldn’t quit.

A few months later, I formed an LLC and started my own practice. I knew I needed to do something different.

This is the moment when I realized just how much my body and emotions were changing during perimenopause.

For Perimenopause Awareness Day, I want to talk about what this transition can mean for sexual wellness, because if you’re anxious, agitated, angry, exhausted, and getting emotional over things you used to handle differently, having sex may be at the bottom of your list of priorities, or nonexistent!

The Good Days That Make Perimenopause So Confusing…

Perimenopause is the transition leading up to menopause. It often begins in the 40s, although timing varies. Natural menopause is usually recognized after twelve months without a period, when another cause is not responsible.

During perimenopause, ovarian hormone production becomes less predictable, and ovulation, the release of an egg, may not happen every month. If it happens and the egg released is poor quality, then hormone production from the follicle that released it is lower, inconsistent, and unpredictable. Your periods may become shorter or longer, heavier or lighter, or you may begin skipping them.

These changes can be hard to understand while you are living through them. You are still having periods. Some days you may feel perfectly well.

Then your sleep changes, your patience disappears, and you don’t feel like yourself.

Hormone fluctuations can contribute to mood symptoms in many women. Stress and previous depression matter, too, and persistent anxiety or depression deserves assessment rather than being automatically attributed to perimenopause.

Why Some Women Call Menopause a Relief

Think of yourself in a boat on a huge lake. In the way I describe menopause, the water is still. You have no sail and no oars. Nothing is happening. It is calm, but an eerie calm that feels like a loss: maybe of direction, of self.

You want to get back to shore, feel well, and enjoy your life, but the boat goes nowhere.

Now think of perimenopause. You are in the same boat, but you have a sail and oars. It is hard to manage both at the same time, and it is just you.

Then the wind starts, and you go from no wind to extremely high winds in a tempest. The waves take you up and down. Sometimes you don’t even know which way is up.

Then the wind dies off. Everything is still, and you get a breather. You are still shocked from the previous tempest; you hope you are done and back to normal, but then the wind comes again.

I have heard women describe menopause as a relief from perimenopause. They may still feel tired, sleep poorly, or have other symptoms, but they are relieved to be out of those repeated ups and downs.

Of course, each woman experiences this differently. Some have mild symptoms, and others continue to struggle after menopause.

Why Feeling Close Gets Harder When You Don’t Feel Like Yourself

By your 40s, you may have important career and family responsibilities, children, parents who need help, and very little energy, all at a time when it feels like everyone needs something from you.

If you also feel irritable or intensely vulnerable, it can be hard to cope with the day's ordinary stresses.

You may notice you are reacting differently.
You hear the words coming out of your mouth.

You notice the crying spells.

And you feel powerless to stop them…

Now add your relationship to that. An argument with your partner can stay with you long after the conversation is over. You may be tired of explaining how you feel, particularly when you are having trouble understanding it yourself.

When you feel that way, it is hard to feel close to your partner, and even harder to want intimacy.

This is why I want partners to understand what can happen during perimenopause. If your partner knows what you are going through, you can talk about what would help, including when you need space or practical support.

Sexual desire is affected by more than hormone levels. Sleep, mood, pain, medications, relationship concerns, and how you feel about your body can all play a role.

The changes also vary: some women notice less desire, some notice more, and some notice no change.

When Your Mood Follows Your Cycle and When It Doesn’t

Premenstrual syndrome, or PMS, can involve physical and emotional symptoms in the days before a period. Premenstrual dysphoric disorder, or PMDD, involves more severe symptoms that interfere significantly with daily life or relationships.

So, the timing matters…

Symptoms that follow a premenstrual pattern need to be distinguished from depression or anxiety that continues throughout the month.

Keeping a daily record of symptoms and period dates for 4-6 months can help your physician assess that pattern.

If you feel irritable or depressed most days, please say that at your appointment. If it lifts some days and comes back others, say that, too.

You do not have to figure out the diagnosis yourself before asking for help. Remember, ChatGPT is NOT a trained, caring medical provider.

Planning Closeness Before Exhaustion Wins

When you do not sleep well, you wake up tired. Maybe you get a little better during the day, but by the afternoon you are exhausted again.

Feeling like that makes it very hard to seek out or desire intimacy. You’re just trying to get through your day.

The things that kept you awake may still be there the following night. Work. An argument. Worry about your children. Financial concerns. Drama involving your friends.

Sometimes physical symptoms, including night sweats, interrupt sleep as well.

Sleep difficulties are common during the menopause transition and are worth discussing with your physician.

I am not a dating expert or a relationship guru...

But working on this with your partner, and choosing times when you are both mentally, emotionally, and physically prepared to be together, may make a big difference.

That might mean making time for closeness before you are completely exhausted. It also means being able to say when you need rest. Planned time together should leave room for how you both actually feel.

When Your Body Changes and Your Confidence Goes With It

Weight gain is another concern women bring into this conversation. If your body is changing in ways you do not like, particularly around your abdomen, you may not feel as sexy as you used to. You might feel uncomfortable when you look at yourself naked in the mirror.

Several factors contribute to midlife weight changes, including aging, changes in muscle mass and activity, sleep, and eating habits. Menopause-related hormone changes can also affect where the body stores fat.

It is too simple to explain all of this through one hormone imbalance.

I want women to have room to talk about that, too.

How you feel in your body is part of the sexual wellness conversation.

Lastly, Don’t Forget About You…

I have talked many times about women putting themselves last. Everyone else, and everything else, goes to the top of the list.

You probably believe that your own symptoms can wait until you reach the point of saying, “Okay, I’m done. Something’s got to give. I need to see someone. I can’t keep living like this.”

Don’t wait until you are at that point. Act early so that YOU TAKE CONTROL, and perimenopause does not control you.

Go back to the basics: what you eat, how you move, how you sleep, how much stress you are carrying, and whether you have support at home and at work. Discuss what is realistically possible in your life. These things deserve attention alongside medical care.

Hormone testing may come up, but it needs to answer a useful clinical question. For otherwise healthy women aged 45 and over with typical symptoms and menstrual changes, guidelines generally identify perimenopause from the clinical history without routine hormone tests. That eliminates the possibility of meeting with a physician who will review your blood tests and tell you they're normal.

Seek a medical provider that has experience in addressing perimenopause, understands it, and can support you through this period. Because this is not a one-and-done. You need a medical partner in this difficult transitional period of your life.

Younger women or those with an unclear picture may need a different assessment.

Please tell your physician what you are having trouble living with. If you are exhausted, explain when it starts and what your nights are like. If you are struggling with your mood, explain how it is affecting your day.

And if sex has become uncomfortable or something you no longer want, you can bring that into the appointment, too.

Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources & Further Reading

• National Institute on Aging: What Is Menopause?

  https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/menopause/what-menopause

• ACOG: Perimenopausal Bleeding and Bleeding After Menopause

  https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/perimenopausal-bleeding-and-bleeding-after-menopause

• The Menopause Society: Perimenopause

  https://menopause.org/patient-education/menopause-topics/perimenopause

• The Menopause Society: Sexual Health

  https://menopause.org/patient-education/menopause-topics/sexual-health

• ACOG: Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS)

  https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/Premenstrual-Syndrome

• The Menopause Society: Weight Gain at Menopause

  https://menopause.org/wp-content/uploads/for-women/MenoNote-Weight-Gain.pdf

• NICE: Menopause, Identification and Management

  https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng23

You’re not doing something just because you were told to do it. You understand why you are doing it, what the test can tell you, and what might happen afterward.

Mammograms can find breast cancer before it causes symptoms, and screening has been shown to reduce breast cancer deaths. That benefit belongs in the conversation. So do the potential harms…

Today I want to talk about two of those harms: over diagnosis and false-positive results.

These are different problems, and women deserve to understand both…

The Cancer That Never Needed Treatment

The concept of over diagnosis may be something you haven’t heard much about.

A false positive is when a test raises concern about cancer and more testing shows there is none. Over diagnosis is a different problem.

With over diagnosis, the screening test finds a true cancer, but one that would never have caused symptoms or harmed the woman during her lifetime. It may grow very slowly, or not at all.

The difficulty is that we cannot reliably identify every individual cancer that would never cause harm. Treatment is tailored to the cancer and the patient; all breast cancers are not treated the same.

Even so, some women undergo treatment for a cancer that would never have affected their health. Surgery, radiation, chemotherapy, and medications can have consequences of their own.

The Numbers That Rise With Every Decade After 70

I found an article published by the National Cancer Institute in 2023 called “Study Adds to Debate about Mammography in Older Women.” It discusses research involving more than 50,000 women aged 70 and older.

The findings were published in the Annals of Internal Medicine, and the numbers caught my attention.

Among breast cancers diagnosed in women who continued screening, the researchers estimated that the proportion potentially over diagnosed was:

• 31% for women ages 70 to 74

• 47% for women ages 75 to 84

• Up to 54% for women ages 85 and older

These percentages refer to cancers diagnosed among screened women, rather than to all women having mammograms. They are estimates from an observational study, and they cannot tell an individual woman that her cancer would be harmless.

This conversation becomes more important as a woman gets older, because her other health problems, her remaining life expectancy, and her ability to handle treatment all matter.

A woman who is frail or has serious medical problems may have a very different experience recovering from surgery or tolerating cancer treatment than a healthy woman of the same age.

The possible benefit of finding a slow-growing cancer needs to be considered alongside what treatment could mean for her quality of life.

Some women will keep screening well past 75, and that can be the right choice. Continuing deserves a thoughtful conversation, especially when other health problems are significant.

And if a cancer has already been diagnosed, decisions about treatment belong in a separate, individualized discussion with the treating team.

The false alarm

The second issue is the false-positive result.

Something looks abnormal on the screening mammogram. More evaluation is needed. Eventually, that finding turns out not to be cancer.

But getting from that first abnormal result to the reassuring answer can be a difficult experience.

I have met quite a few women who refused to have another mammogram because of a previous poor experience, a very traumatic experience caused by a false-positive finding. We should not discount the impact on a woman’s emotional well-being.

What happens after a callback

After an abnormal finding on a screening mammogram, you may need additional images. That may mean a diagnostic mammogram, a targeted breast ultrasound, or both.

Depending on those findings, if the area remains suspicious, the next step may be a breast biopsy. Imaging and biopsy are different procedures, and not every callback leads to a biopsy.

Imagine the stress, fear, and emotional turmoil of waiting for an appointment, another test, and the results. Then, at the end, she hears it was just a false alarm.

Of course, she is happy that no cancer was found. Many women feel reassured and continue with their recommended screening. They want to continue to protect their breasts.

But relief at the result does not erase what the process felt like.

The numbers help explain how common this is. In the United States, about 10% of screening mammograms lead to a callback for further testing. Of those, about 7% lead to a cancer diagnosis.

In other words, most women called back do not turn out to have cancer. Whether a biopsy is needed depends on what the follow-up evaluation shows.

The chance of experiencing a false positive also adds up over repeated screenings. A UC Davis-led study estimated that about half of women undergoing annual 3D mammography would experience at least one false-positive recall over ten years. That is a cumulative estimate over a decade, and individual risk varies.

Being asked to come back again and again

Another stressful and annoying issue women describe is being asked to return for imaging every six months, sometimes over one or two years, to make sure a finding remains stable.

This type of surveillance can be appropriate for a finding assessed as probably benign. A suspicious finding needs a different plan; it should not simply be left waiting for years.

I was one of those women.

I had my first screening mammogram at 40. I had never had kids. I had been on birth control pills for five years or less. I didn’t have any family history, but I said, “Well, I’m going to be a good patient. I tell my patients to go get it. I should go get it.”

Something was seen on the mammogram. And I had dense breasts…

I was told to come in every six months. That went on for two years.

After my fourth mammogram in two years, when I was told I needed to come back in another six months just to be on the safer side, I looked at the radiologist and said no.

I’ll be honest with you. I’m guilty as charged. I did not go back to have a mammogram for five years after that.

I share that experience because it helps me understand the frustration women bring into my office. An abnormal finding still needs follow-up, so please bring that frustration to your doctor. Together you can understand the finding and agree on the follow-up you need.

My experience may be different from yours. But I hear echoes of it when a woman comes in for a routine visit and asks me timidly, “Is there any way I could do an ultrasound instead?”

That deserves an honest conversation about the pros, cons, and limitations of the different tests.

An ultrasound may help answer a particular question or supplement screening in some women, but it does not replace everything a mammogram can show. The choice depends on what we are looking for and the woman’s individual risk.

Doctors have to recognize that a false-positive mammogram can lead to fear and anxiety, and that even after the finding is resolved, it can leave a woman frustrated with the health care system.

Research has also found that some women are less likely to return for routine screening after a false positive, particularly when they have been asked to undergo short-interval follow-up or a biopsy. We need to take that seriously and help women through the process.

What Gets Lost When the Appointment Is Rushed

There is also the pressure women feel around keeping up with their mammograms.

The imaging center sends letters reminding them it is time to come back. If they haven’t returned for the recommended diagnostic imaging or biopsy, there are more reminders, and the doctor is notified.

By the way, we doctors appreciate that. Following up on an abnormal finding matters.

But some women feel overwhelmed and stressed. They would rather short-circuit the conversation in the doctor’s office: “Just get me an order for a mammogram. Please email it to me.”

They want to make the appointment.
They want to put it in the rearview mirror, so to speak.

They want the reassurance of having been screened.

I understand that. I also want a woman to have room to talk about what happened the last time, why she is worried, and what she understands about the next step. The emotional experience is part of her care.

The Test We Are Still Waiting For…

I want to end with why I hope we keep developing better ways to screen for breast cancer.

As an OB-GYN, I think about cervical cancer screening. We can find precancerous cervical cell changes and, when appropriate, treat them before cancer develops. That is an important opportunity for prevention.

Breast screening has its own challenges. Mammograms can detect ductal carcinoma in situ, or DCIS, where abnormal cells are still confined to the milk ducts.

Some of these lesions could become invasive cancer, while others would not. We still need better ways to understand which findings will become dangerous and which treatments each woman needs.

Blood tests are another area of interest. One example is Signatera by Natera. This test looks for circulating tumor DNA and is used in people who have already been diagnosed with cancer to help assess residual disease or recurrence. It is not a general breast cancer screening test for women who have never been diagnosed.

There is also a test called Galleri, which looks for signals associated with multiple cancers. DNA fragments circulate in the blood from healthy cells as well as cancer cells; the presence of DNA outside a cell does not, by itself, mean cancer.

Galleri looks for particular patterns in that DNA. It does not replace recommended breast cancer screening.

I sincerely hope that advances in testing will give us better information and help us make better decisions. For now, women need to understand the limitations of the tests we have, along with their benefits.

Please make room for that conversation with your physician. Your previous experiences, your health, and your concerns should shape what comes next.

Thank you for trusting me with your time.

Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources & Further Reading

• National Cancer Institute: Mammograms

  https://www.cancer.gov/types/breast/screening/mammograms

• National Cancer Institute: Study Adds to Debate about Mammography in Older Women

  https://www.cancer.gov/news-events/cancer-currents-blog/2023/mammography-older-women-breast-cancer-overdiagnosis

• Annals of Internal Medicine: Estimating Breast Cancer Overdiagnosis After Screening Mammography Among Older Women in the United States

  https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37549389/

• American Cancer Society: Getting Called Back After a Mammogram

  https://www.cancer.org/cancer/types/breast-cancer/screening-tests-and-early-detection/mammograms/getting-called-back-after-a-mammogram.html

• National Cancer Institute: Some Women Avoid Breast Cancer Screening After False-Positive Mammogram Results

  https://www.cancer.gov/news-events/cancer-currents-blog/2024/mammogram-false-positives-affect-future-screening

• UC Davis Health: Half of Women Get False Positive Mammograms Over 10 Years of Annual Screenings

  https://health.ucdavis.edu/chpr/news/Articles/2022/Half-of-Women-Get-False-Positive-Mammograms-Over-10-Years-of-Annual-Screenings

• RadiologyInfo: Breast Ultrasound

  https://www.radiologyinfo.org/en/info/breastus

• National Cancer Institute: Cervical Cancer Screening

  https://www.cancer.gov/types/cervical/screening

• National Cancer Institute: Ductal Carcinoma In Situ (DCIS)

  https://www.cancer.gov/types/breast/breast-cancer-types/dcis

• Natera: Signatera

  https://www.natera.com/oncology/signatera-advanced-cancer-detection/

• Galleri: Frequently Asked Questions

  https://www.galleri.com/hcp/faqs

• American Cancer Society: Multi-Cancer Early Detection Tests

  https://www.cancer.org/cancer/screening/multi-cancer-early-detection-tests.html

“We need you to come back for more imaging.”

“Your biopsy shows cancer.”

And, later in life, “We found something, and at your age, we need to decide what to do.”

If you have lived through one of these moments, you know the feeling. Your heart pounds, your mind races ahead to the worst, and suddenly you’re expected to make decisions while barely able to breathe.

If you haven’t, you’ve probably feared it, quietly, every time the mammogram reminder arrives, or every time you schedule your annual breast cancer screening.

I wrote this guide so you never have to face any of those moments unprepared. Not as a lecture, but as the conversation I wish every woman could have with a doctor who has the time to sit down, hold her hand, and explain everything, including the parts that rarely get said out loud, or what is said but not heard over the rush of anxiety and cold, numbing fear when the word CANCER is suddenly applied to you.

Inside, you’ll find the real numbers that can calm your fear, the exact steps that come next, the newest research that’s letting women not only survive breast cancer but get back to a full, normal life, and honest answers to the hardest questions: lumpectomy or mastectomy? What if I’m on hormone therapy? And at 75 or older, should this cancer be treated at all?

Please save this guide. Bookmark it, print it, share it with your sister or your best friend. It’s built to be the reference you reach for on the day you need it most:

• Part 1: The callback. What a false alarm really means, how to get through the wait, and how to plan your next mammogram if you take HRT.

• Part 2: “You’ve been diagnosed. Now what?” Survival by stage, the steps after a positive biopsy, the newest hopeful research, lumpectomy versus mastectomy, and what to do if you were on HRT when you were diagnosed.

• Part 3: Diagnosed after 75. When a cancer can be simply watched or treated gently, and when it should be treated fully.

Wherever you are on this road, you’re not alone. Let’s walk it together.

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If you have ever been told “your estrogen could give you cancer,” you are not alone. An entire generation of women heard that message after 2002; they stopped their hormones overnight and have lived in quiet fear of their own hormones ever since.

I would like for you to consider a different point of view. Estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone arrived at puberty to make you fertile, to allow you to become pregnant, carry and birth children, and on top of that, these hormones help to build your bones, protect your heart and brain, your joints, your feminine looks, and do so much more that allows you to nourish your babies.

These hormones were crucial to build you up and develop you into the woman you are today, and it makes no sense for them to suddenly, after 50, be on a mission to destroy you and give you cancer. That is as far from the truth as we can get.

Breast cancer is real and serious, as 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime. But breast cancer is driven by many forces: genetics, aging, alcohol, insulin, body fat, activity levels, environmental chemicals, and the type and balance of hormones, not the mere presence of them.

Research over the last 20 years has quietly changed the story. In the largest randomized hormone trial ever run, women taking estrogen alone had fewer breast cancers and fewer breast cancer deaths than women on placebo.

But that information was buried and not trumpeted loudly as it should have been in 2004, so women and their doctors were left with the aftermath of the 2002 release of the WHI study findings for the women who were taking estrogen combined with a progestin. And when it was finally clear that the real problem in that trial was the synthetic progestin, not estrogen itself, most doctors and researchers were never told, and they did not put 2 and 2 together until more studies were done, and much later.

Meanwhile, women suffered and were denied estrogen therapy on the basis of this study.

Why you need to know more than your doctor on this

This is not about distrusting your physician. It is about arithmetic. The average primary care visit is short, screening guidelines lag research by years, and different entities offer different recommendations, which makes it confusing.

But on top of this, most doctors receive little training in menopause or hormone therapy. Risk assessment is personal, and nobody has more time or motivation to understand your own risk than you do.

The goal of this article is to make you an informed partner: someone who knows her numbers, knows the evidence, knows which questions to ask, and can tell the difference between solid science, promising science, and marketing. Each section below ends with what to do.

Important: This article is educational and does not replace individual medical care. Every hormone, test and supplement decision should be made with a qualified clinician who knows your history, and your personal risk factors.

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In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I am starting a series called Beyond the Mammogram.

The fear of breast cancer is one of the biggest reasons women hesitate when they are considering hormone replacement therapy. Women want to know how we are going to monitor their breasts as they age, especially when they are receiving hormone therapy for menopause.

They ask me this question all the time: “If I get a mammogram every year for 30 or 40 years, is all that radiation safe?” It is a fair question, and you deserve a clear answer.

For Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I want to spend some time on those questions. A woman should understand why a test is being recommended and what it can reasonably tell her.

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What does radiation do to the body during a mammogram?

A mammogram is an X-ray of the breast. Each one gives you a very small dose of radiation, and that radiation does not stay in your body after the test.

The thing to understand is that the doses add up over a lifetime. One mammogram is tiny, but forty of them add up to something worth talking about.

Researchers have tried to put numbers on this. One large study pictured 100,000 women getting a mammogram every year from age 40 to 74.

It estimated that the radiation could cause about 125 breast cancers and 16 deaths over those women’s lifetimes. That works out to roughly 1 woman in 800. The same study estimated that finding cancers early would save 968 lives in that same group.

The benefit is much bigger than the risk. I still want you to hear both numbers, because a woman who hears only about the radiation, or only about the lives saved, is missing half the story.

These numbers come from a computer model, which is a careful estimate, and they cannot tell you exactly what will happen to you.

When you and I sit down to talk about screening, I want us to look at your age, your own risk for breast cancer, and how often you are being screened. That is how we decide what makes sense for you.

How often should I have a mammogram?

If you feel confused about how often to get a mammogram, you are not alone. Major health groups don’t all agree, so women hear different advice from different places.

The U.S. Preventive Services Task Force, a national panel of experts that reviews the research, recommends a mammogram every two years from age 40 to 74 for women at average risk.

Average risk means you have never had breast cancer, you have no known gene change that raises your risk, and you did not have strong radiation to your chest when you were young.

After 74, the panel says there isn’t enough research to know whether screening helps more than it harms, so you decide with your doctor.

The American Cancer Society sets it up a little differently. From 40 to 44, a yearly mammogram is your choice. From 45 to 54, it recommends one every year.

From 55 on, you can choose every year or every two years, and it suggests you keep going as long as you are healthy and expect to live at least ten more years.

Women rarely hear what that difference adds up to. Going every two years instead of every year from 40 to 74 means about half as many mammograms over your lifetime. That also means less radiation and fewer false alarms that send you back for more tests.

These schedules are a starting point. If you have had breast cancer before, if you carry a gene mutation that runs in families like BRCA, or had radiation to your chest at a young age, you need a plan made just for you, and the Task Force advice does not apply to you.

At your next visit, ask your doctor which schedule they follow and how your history changes it.

What do dense breasts change?

Many women first hear the words “dense breasts” in a letter after their mammogram, and nobody explains what it means.

I know this one personally. My own first mammogram at 40 showed “dense breasts.”

Your breasts are made of fat and of firmer tissue: the glands that make milk and the fibers that hold everything in place. When you have more of that firmer tissue than fat, your breasts are called dense.

You cannot feel it yourself. It only shows up on a mammogram.

Density matters for two reasons. On a mammogram, dense tissue looks white, and cancer looks white too, so finding a small cancer in dense tissue is like looking for a snowball in a snowstorm.

Dense breasts also carry a higher chance of breast cancer on their own. Hormone therapy for menopause can make breast tissue denser, which is why I always bring this up when a woman is thinking about starting hormones.

A mammogram is still worth doing when your breasts are dense. We just need to know what it can miss and decide together whether another imaging test would help you.

Breast ultrasound is the test most women ask me about. It uses sound waves instead of radiation, and it is very good at telling whether a “spot” is filled with fluid, like a harmless cyst, or is solid.

Some women with dense breasts also get an automated ultrasound, where a machine scans the whole breast, as an extra screening test.

Ultrasound has its limits, too. Some cancers, and the tiny calcium spots that can be an early sign of cancer, show up on a mammogram and not on ultrasound.

Extra testing can also find spots that need a closer look or spots that need a biopsy, which is a small tissue sample, and then turn out to be nothing. Ultrasound works best as a partner to your mammogram.

Breast MRI uses a strong magnet and radio waves, with no radiation. It is the most sensitive breast test we have, and for women at high risk, it is recommended along with a mammogram, or alternating yearly instead of a mammogram.

It usually means an IV with a special dye; it can be expensive, insurance often will not cover it for women at average risk, and it can raise false alarms too.

Adding another test is a trade. You may catch something the mammogram missed, and you may also end up with more callbacks and biopsies.

Right now, the Task Force says there is not enough research to recommend extra ultrasound or MRI for every woman with dense breasts and a normal mammogram. That is why this decision belongs to you and your doctor, based on your whole picture and your own individual risk factors.

So, always ask what your mammogram report says about density and whether it changes your screening plan.

The Scan Women Pay Out of Pocket For, and What the FDA Says

Many women have never heard of thermography, or have only heard of it in passing. Others are willing to pay out of pocket because they wish to avoid radiation and the discomfort of a mammogram.

I understand the discomfort. Having your breasts positioned on a cold surface by a stranger’s hands, and then compressed to the point of pain between two solid plates does not feel good. Even when the examiner is very nice and apologetic, it can still feel invasive.

Women tell me they loathe getting one, and we need to listen and take that seriously.

Thermography uses infrared imaging to show heat patterns near the body’s surface. It does not require breast compression or use ionizing radiation. Those features help explain its appeal.

However, the FDA says thermography has not been shown to work as a standalone breast cancer screening test. Claims that it detects cancer years earlier, or works better for dense breasts, have not been established.

Devices have been cleared only for use alongside another test, and a reassuring thermogram cannot rule out breast cancer.

I would like to see more research and more standardization in how this technology is interpreted. The potential to find useful changes earlier is worth investigating.

We still need evidence showing what those changes mean and whether acting on them helps women.

For now, thermography should not replace recommended mammography or delay evaluation of a breast change.

If discomfort is making you consider avoiding screening, please tell your physician and the imaging team so they can discuss ways to make the examination more tolerable.

Screening and prevention deserve their own conversations

A screening test looks for disease in someone who has no symptoms. A mammogram that finds cancer before it can be felt does exactly that.

Diagnostic imaging investigates a symptom or an abnormal screening result; a suspicious finding may require a biopsy to determine what it is.

But women are also asking about their future risk. They want to know whether there is something they can address now.

I believe that belongs in the appointment, too. Physical activity, reducing or avoiding alcohol, and maintaining a healthy weight can help lower breast cancer risk. None of these can guarantee that a woman will never develop breast cancer.

That conversation can happen alongside screening. You do not need to wait for an abnormal image to discuss your health, your family history, or your concerns about hormone therapy.

4 Questions to Bring to Your Next Appointment

Please become familiar with how your breasts ordinarily look and feel.

Report a new lump, nipple discharge, a change in the nipple, skin dimpling, or another unusual change promptly, even if your last mammogram was reassuring. Symptoms need evaluation when they occur.

A formal monthly self-examination has not been established as a replacement for screening.

The American Cancer Society does not recommend routine clinical breast exams as screening for average-risk women, though an examination can be appropriate when there is a symptom or another clinical reason. Discuss that with your physician.

At your next appointment, bring the questions that apply to you:

1. What is my breast cancer risk, and what information are we using to assess it?

2. Do I have dense breasts, and would additional imaging be useful?

3. How does my hormone therapy fit into this discussion?

4. How often should I be screened, and who will follow up on the results?

Don’t forget to ask for enough time to go through the answers.

If you are worried about radiation, say so. If the last mammogram was painful, say that, too.

We physicians, need to hear those concerns while we still have a chance to address them and help you continue your care.

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Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources & Further Reading

Radiology Info: Breast Cancer Screening

https://www.radiologyinfo.org/en/info/screening-breast

Annals of Internal Medicine: Radiation-Induced Breast Cancer Incidence and Mortality From Digital Mammography Screening, A Modeling Study

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4878445/

U.S. Preventive Services Task Force: Breast Cancer Screening

https://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf/document/ClinicalSummaryFinal/breast-cancer-screening

American Cancer Society: Recommendations for the Early Detection of Breast Cancer

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National Cancer Institute: Dense Breasts, Answers to Commonly Asked Questions

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RadiologyInfo: Breast Ultrasound

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American Cancer Society: Breast MRI

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FDA: Breast Cancer Screening, Thermogram No Substitute for Mammogram

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https://www.cancer.gov/types/breast/screening/mammograms

National Cancer Institute: Breast Cancer Prevention

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National Cancer Institute: Signs and Symptoms of Breast Cancer

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Months later, she has spent a considerable amount of money without knowing what caused the change or whether anything improved.

Would you rather get to the root of these issues or just play an expensive guessing game, while your trash can is filled with empty bottles?

Skin and hair changes can reflect menopause, normal aging, genetics, sun exposure, nutrition, thyroid dysfunction, iron deficiency, immune activity, medication effects, stress, rapid weight loss, digestive problems, or several factors occurring together.

Outside Aging May Be Revealing Inside Aging

Women often focus on the changes they can see: wrinkles, laxity, thinning hair, enlarged pores, cellulite, or a face that appears more tired than it once did. Those changes may send them toward skincare, lasers, peels, PRP, injectables, and the latest rejuvenation treatment.

I understand the appeal, and some of these treatments can be useful, don’t get me wrong.

I own a medspa as I strongly believe in the power of light (lasers) and I know that no skincare can do what Botox does. But correcting the surface without examining what is happening underneath is like throwing glitter into the wind. It may look impressive for a moment, but the effect disappears while the underlying problem remains.

Skin and hair respond to hormones, circulation, nutrition, inflammation, immune activity, thyroid function, digestion, sleep, stress, and metabolic health. Visible aging is therefore more than a cosmetic event. It can reflect how effectively the body is functioning and repairing itself.

Improvement also takes time. Correcting a deficiency, improving the hormonal environment, treating thyroid dysfunction, supporting digestion, or reducing inflammation will not make every tissue rebound overnight. Skin and hair grow and repair gradually, which means meaningful change may require months or longer.

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And the beauty industry is ready and waiting to sell them to you.

There is a cream, serum, laser, or pill for almost every visible change. Some of these treatments can help, but before going on a binge spree on Amazon or at the closest medspa, I want women to understand what may be changing inside.

Your skin and hair are biologically active tissues, and both respond to your hormonal environment. Changes may also reflect shifts in thyroid function, iron, your gut, digestion, stress, sleep, medications, or weight. These factors frequently interact, so the visible change may have more than one contributor.

In other words, your skin and hair can reflect what is happening inside your body. Let’s break it down.

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Estrogen Is a Powerhouse Beyond Reproduction

Women are often taught to associate estrogen with periods, fertility, and pregnancy. Its influence extends far beyond reproduction.

Estrogen receptors are present in the skin and hair follicles. Estrogen contributes to collagen production, skin thickness, hydration, elasticity, wound healing, and other processes that affect how skin functions and appears.

As estrogen declines, skin may become thinner, drier, less elastic, and more prone to bruising. Hair may lose density and diameter, while the influence of androgens can become more apparent in women who are genetically susceptible to female pattern hair loss.

Androgens, a group of hormones that includes testosterone and DHEA, also influence sebum production, skin texture, and hair-follicle activity. Too much androgenic activity may contribute to oily skin, acne, facial hair, or scalp thinning, while an inadequate hormonal environment may leave skin drier and less resilient.

The balance is complex, and one isolated hormone result rarely explains the entire picture. When that balance shifts, the effects may appear across the skin, scalp, and hair follicles.

When Your Skin Begins to Change

Estrogen decline can reduce collagen, hydration, thickness, and elasticity, leaving the skin drier, more fragile, and slower to heal. Androgens influence sebum production, which helps explain why hormonal shifts may bring dryness for one woman and increased oiliness or acne for another.

Hormones are important, but we don’t want to miss the whole picture. Thyroid dysfunction, poor sleep, chronic stress, nutritional deficiencies, digestive problems, weight loss, sun exposure, smoking, and certain medications can also influence and change your skin.

Your gut and your digestion are closely connected to your skin and hair through nutrient absorption, immune signaling, inflammation, and hormone metabolism. Research into the microbiome is still developing, but persistent digestive symptoms and repeated nutrient deficiencies should not be ignored while the appearance (skin and hair) is being treated.

Women often focus on reversing ONLY the aging they can see, while overlooking what is changing underneath. Skincare, lasers, peels, and injectables may improve the surface, but they cannot correct an underlying hormonal, nutritional, thyroid, digestive, or metabolic issue.

Remember: Your skin is more than your appearance. It can be a visible record of how well your body is functioning, repairing, and responding to change.

In the complete Midlife Skin and Hair Assessment Guide, I help you identify the pattern, trace possible triggers, understand which laboratory findings may be useful, recognize signs requiring medical attention, and prepare focused questions for your next appointment.

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When Your Hair Begins to Thin

Hair thinning during midlife is often blamed on age, stress, or genetics. Any of those may contribute, but buying a heavily marketed supplement before identifying the pattern and possible causes is an expensive guessing game.

I evaluate several major areas.

Hormones

Thyroid dysfunction, menopause-related changes, testosterone, DHEA, and androgen metabolism can all affect the hair-growth cycle.

Estrogen decline may contribute to changes in hair density and diameter, while androgen activity and follicular sensitivity can influence female pattern hair loss. A focused hormone panel may therefore be appropriate, but one testosterone result taken at a single moment rarely tells the entire story.

The findings must be interpreted alongside the pattern, timing, symptoms, medications, menstrual history, and other clinical information. In selected cases, a deeper look at hormone metabolites may provide information that a single blood draw cannot capture.

Iron, Nutrition, and Absorption

Iron deficiency requires particular attention in women with heavy menstrual bleeding.

Protein intake and deficiencies involving vitamin D, vitamin B12, zinc, or other nutrients may also need evaluation when the history supports it.

Taking more supplements does not guarantee that the follicle receives what it needs. The dose may be inadequate, the product may be poor quality, the suspected deficiency may never have existed, or digestion and absorption may be impaired.

If you cannot absorb what you take, an expensive supplement can become expensive waste.

Stress, Illness, and Weight Loss

Illness, surgery, emotional stress, restrictive eating, or rapid weight loss can push more hairs into the shedding phase. The loss often appears two or three months later, making the connection easy to miss.

This can also occur during significant weight loss with a GLP-1 medication, particularly when protein and overall nutrition decline. The medication does not explain every case of hair loss, but the timing and nutritional changes should be examined.

Chronic stress can also disrupt sleep, appetite, digestion, and food choices. Anyone who has worked herself into exhaustion knows that the effects eventually become visible. The eyes look sunken, the skin loses vitality, and the hair begins to suffer.

That is physiology showing itself.

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Immune and Scalp Conditions

Smooth bald patches, redness, pain, burning, scaling, or eyebrow loss may point to an autoimmune, inflammatory, or scarring condition. These changes require dermatologic evaluation because delayed treatment can lead to permanent follicle damage.

Another supplement and six more months of waiting may cost valuable treatment time.

Medications and Exposures

Certain medications and medical treatments can affect hair growth. Toxic exposures may also contribute, but broad heavy-metal testing without a credible exposure history can produce confusing results.

Testing should be based on a plausible exposure and performed using an appropriate validated method.

Hormone Therapy Is Not One Uniform Treatment

Hormones can influence skin and hair without explaining every visible change. Iron deficiency, thyroid dysfunction, inadequate nutrition, stress, medications, digestive problems, genetics, and scalp conditions may also contribute.

Hormone therapies also differ by hormone, dose, formulation, delivery method, absorption, and the levels they achieve. A cream, patch, pill, and pellet cannot automatically be treated as equivalent.

One 48-week trial found that a specific low-dose combination of ethinyl estradiol and norethindrone acetate did not significantly improve facial wrinkles or sagging. It did not compare every hormone formulation, dose, or delivery method, so its findings cannot settle the question for all hormone therapy.

Hormone therapy is neither a facelift nor a universal hair-growth treatment. However, dismissing the influence of estrogen and androgens on skin and hair would leave the explanation incomplete.

Biological repair also takes time. Correcting a deficiency or improving the hormonal environment cannot instantly rebuild collagen, restore elasticity, or reset the hair-growth cycle. Meaningful changes may take months, and some structural changes may remain.

Stop Treating Every Visible Change as a Cosmetic Failure!

I need women to stop assuming that changing skin and hair mean they failed to purchase the correct products or maintain themselves properly.

The mirror is a reflection of your inside biology.

Pay attention to when the change began, how quickly it progressed, whether your menstrual cycle changed, whether you lost weight, experienced a major stressor, started a medication, developed digestive symptoms, or began having heavier periods.

That information may be far more useful than another shelf of products.

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• A skin and hair change inventory

• The major patterns of female hair loss and shedding

• Hormonal and thyroid factors worth examining

• The limits of one-time blood testing

• When expanded hormone-metabolite testing may add information

• The gut-skin-hair connection

• Medical conditions and deficiencies worth investigating

• Warning signs requiring a dermatology appointment

• What hormone therapy may and may not improve

• An evidence-aware review of supplements and cosmetic treatments

• A checklist to complete before spending money on another product or procedure

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Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources and Further Reading

• The Menopause Society: Female pattern hair loss after menopause

• American Academy of Dermatology: What causes hair loss in women?

• PubMed: Menopause and hair loss in women

• PubMed: Randomized trial of hormone therapy and age-related skin changes

“Nothing in excess.”
- Ancient Greek maxim

The bottle promises energy. The podcast promises longevity. The influencer promises better sleep, sharper thinking, stronger immunity, balanced hormones, and a younger metabolism. A friend swears that one powder changed her life. Soon your kitchen counter resembles a pharmacy, yet nobody has reviewed the total dose, the interactions, the quality, the evidence, or whether anything improved.

Women are spending extraordinary amounts of money on supplements without knowing what problem each product is supposed to solve.

I use supplements. I recommend them. I also believe every product should earn its place.

If you cannot explain why you take a supplement, what outcome you expect, and how you will evaluate that outcome, you do not have a supplement strategy. You have a collection, and an expensive habit.

This guide will help you evaluate safety, evidence, dosing, product quality, medication interactions, and whether each supplement makes sense for you. We will examine popular supplements for nutrition, metabolism, cognition, sleep, immunity, healthy aging, and pain while identifying overlapping ingredients, excessive doses, and exaggerated claims.

Every supplement should earn its place.

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NAD+. NMN. Magnesium. CoQ10. Omega-3s. Vitamin D. K2. Zinc. Probiotics. Peptides. Powders that promise energy, sharper thinking, stronger immunity, a younger metabolism, and more years of life.

Then a friend recommends another product. A podcast adds three more. An influencer shares a morning stack containing 14 capsules. Now artificial intelligence can produce a personalized-looking list in seconds, even when it knows almost nothing about your medical history, medications, diet, digestion, laboratory results, or actual needs.

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The result is predictable: women spend hundreds or thousands of dollars swallowing products without knowing whether they are correcting a deficiency, improving a meaningful outcome, interacting with a medication, or passing through the body with very little benefit.

Here is what women are not being told often enough:

A supplement can support a specific biological need. A supplement stack has never been proven to make an otherwise unhealthy life long and healthy.

The Word “Supplement” Tells You Its Job

A supplement is intended to supplement something.

It may fill a nutritional gap. It may correct a documented deficiency. It may support a specific medical condition or life stage. It may provide a nutrient that has become difficult to obtain through food alone. In some cases, the form and dose can produce a measurable clinical benefit.

That is very different from buying a product because its label contains the words anti-aging, mitochondrial, detox, or longevity.

Before recommending anything, I want to know what problem we are trying to solve.

• Is there a documented deficiency?

• Is the diet missing a reliable source of the nutrient?

• Is a medication affecting absorption or nutrient status?

• Is a digestive condition limiting absorption?

• Is the intended benefit supported by human evidence?

• Could the supplement interfere with a medication or medical condition?

• How will we know whether it worked?

If none of those questions has an answer, you may have a purchase rather than a health plan.

My Foundational Three

When I create a personalized vitamin pack, the three products I use most often as a foundation are a quality multivitamin, CoQ10, and omega-3.

That is my clinical preference, not a universal prescription for every reader.

A multivitamin can help fill nutrient gaps, particularly when diet quality, food variety, appetite, absorption, medications, or life circumstances make consistent nutrition difficult. CoQ10 is involved in cellular energy production and acts as an antioxidant. Omega-3 fatty acids contribute to cell membranes and have important roles in cardiovascular and neurological biology.

These functions are real. The leap from “this nutrient participates in an important biological process” to “taking more of it will make you live longer” is where supplement marketing outruns medicine.

In a large observational analysis of more than 390,000 generally healthy American adults, daily multivitamin use was not associated with a lower risk of death. That does not make multivitamins useless. It means we should stop treating nutritional insurance as an immortality pill.

The same discipline applies to every supplement in the cabinet.

Your Biology Does Not Read the Front of the Bottle

Two bottles can display the same nutrient while delivering very different products.

The chemical form may differ. The dose may differ. One may be absorbed more readily. Another may cause gastrointestinal symptoms. A product may contain additional ingredients you do not need. Manufacturing quality and independent testing also vary.

Your body adds another layer of complexity.

You may forget half your doses. You may take a supplement with something that interferes with absorption. You may have celiac disease, inflammatory bowel disease, pancreatic disease, prior bariatric surgery, chronic diarrhea, or another condition affecting digestion. Kidney and liver function can change what is safe. Prescription medications can create interactions.

The label describes the product. It does not describe what happens after that product enters your body.

Can a Scanner Tell You Whether Your Vitamins Are Working?

I have used a blue-light device that estimates carotenoid levels in the skin. Carotenoids are pigments found in foods such as carrots, tomatoes, leafy greens, and other fruits and vegetables. Optical skin measurements can provide an indirect indication of carotenoid exposure and, to some degree, fruit and vegetable intake.

When my own score came back lower than it had previously, I treated it as a wake-up call. I had become less consistent with the powdered multivitamin I prefer, and I had stopped making some of the nutrient-dense drinks that were previously part of my routine. The result gave me a reason to examine what I was actually doing and recheck after making changes.

The scanner cannot measure every vitamin in your body. It cannot prove that your multivitamin works, diagnose intestinal malabsorption, or provide a complete antioxidant assessment. A lower result can justify a closer look; it cannot explain the cause by itself.

That distinction is important. A device should create a useful clinical question, not manufacture certainty.

The NAD+ Question

NAD+ has become one of the most aggressively marketed names in longevity medicine.

Nicotinamide adenine dinucleotide is essential for cellular energy metabolism and many other biological processes. NAD+ levels can change with age, which has generated enormous interest in precursors such as nicotinamide riboside, known as NR, and nicotinamide mononucleotide, known as NMN. Niagen is a branded form of NR.

The biology is compelling. Human outcomes remain far less impressive than the marketing.

A 2026 systematic review found that oral NR and NMN consistently changed NAD-related biomarkers and were generally well tolerated in short studies. Their effects on physical function, metabolism, vascular health, and other healthspan outcomes were inconsistent, limited to particular endpoints, or absent. Human trials have not shown that these products extend life.

That does not mean the research should stop. It means the claim must match the evidence we have today.

Raising a biomarker is not the same as proving that you will live longer or live better.

More Is Frequently the Wrong Answer

Vitamins and minerals can cause harm when taken inappropriately.

High supplemental zinc intake over time can interfere with copper absorption. Excessive vitamin D can cause dangerously high calcium levels. Magnesium supplements can cause diarrhea and may interact with certain antibiotics and other medications. Vitamin K can have a serious interaction with warfarin. Omega-3 products may affect bleeding risk at higher doses and require additional caution in people with certain medical risks.

A supplement becomes especially difficult to evaluate when several products contain overlapping ingredients. A multivitamin, bone formula, immune blend, sleep powder, and separate zinc capsule may quietly produce a cumulative dose that the buyer never intended.

This is why I want to see every bottle, powder, gummy, injection, and “wellness” product you use. If it enters your body, it belongs on the medication and supplement list.

What Actually Supports a Longer, Healthier Life?

The fundamentals remain stubbornly unglamorous:

• Adequate nutrition

• Muscle and strength

• Cardiorespiratory fitness

• Restorative sleep

• Healthy blood pressure, glucose, and lipid management

• Avoiding tobacco

• Appropriate preventive care

• Social connection and purpose

• Treatment of medical problems before they become disabling

Supplements may support parts of that foundation. They cannot build it for you.

I am interested in supplements. I use them. I recommend them when I believe the clinical reasoning supports them. I also want women protected from an industry that can turn a plausible mechanism into a seductive promise long before meaningful human outcomes exist.

The honest question is rarely, “What should every woman take to live longer?”

The useful questions are:

What does my body need, what evidence supports it, and how will I know whether it helped?

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You will also receive:

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• The difference between correcting a deficiency and chasing a longevity claim

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Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources and Further Reading

• FDA: Dietary Supplements

• NIH Office of Dietary Supplements: Multivitamin/Mineral Supplements

• NIH Office of Dietary Supplements: Multivitamins and Mortality

• National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health: Coenzyme Q10

• NIH Office of Dietary Supplements: Omega-3 Fatty Acids

• NIH Office of Dietary Supplements: Magnesium

• NIH Office of Dietary Supplements: Zinc

• NIH Office of Dietary Supplements: Vitamin D

• NIH Office of Dietary Supplements: Vitamin K

• NAD+ Supplementation for Anti-Aging and Wellness: A Systematic Review

• Optical Assessment of Skin Carotenoid Status as a Biomarker of Vegetable and Fruit Intake

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Did you know that insomnia is more common in women than men? There are many reasons, and women deserve to understand them.

Women often carry an enormous burden of stress. Job pressures exist alongside domestic responsibilities, social demands, and the work of caring for an entire family. Women also experience anxiety and depression at higher rates than men, and these conditions can disturb the sleep-wake cycle.

Then there are the major hormonal fluctuations women experience throughout life: puberty, monthly menstrual cycles, pregnancy and postpartum, perimenopause, and menopause. A woman’s brain chemistry is strongly influenced by her hormonal environment. The balance of estrogen and progesterone matters, and erratic estrogen levels can wreak havoc. Changes in testosterone may also be part of the broader clinical picture, particularly when sleep complaints occur alongside changes in mood, energy, sexual health, or physical comfort.

Many women also live with chronic pain from arthritis, autoimmune conditions, headaches, and other medical problems that repeatedly wake them at night.

You are not imagining the problem. Sleep can deteriorate during perimenopause and menopause for several overlapping reasons. Hot flashes may wake you repeatedly. Anxiety may keep your brain activated. Pain, reflux, urinary symptoms, alcohol, medication effects, restless legs, thyroid disease, or sleep apnea may also be contributing. After enough disrupted nights, the fear of another bad night can become part of the insomnia cycle.

A prompt and thorough evaluation is critical because insomnia can become self-perpetuating. When sleep difficulty occurs at least three nights per week for three months and interferes with daytime functioning, it may meet the definition of chronic insomnia. By that point, waiting and hoping rarely constitutes an adequate treatment plan.

The goal is not always to uncover one perfect “root cause.” Insomnia is frequently multifactorial. The real work is identifying the underlying conditions, triggers, and perpetuating factors that need to be addressed.

A rushed appointment rarely provides enough time for the detailed history insomnia requires. Too often, the visit ends with a prescription for a sleeping pill before anyone has adequately investigated what is disrupting the sleep.

The superficial management of insomnia is a perfect example of what goes wrong in women’s healthcare when symptom suppression replaces investigation. Medication may have a role, but a prescription should not substitute for understanding the problem.

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• The four sleep problems you need to distinguish

• Menopause symptoms and medical conditions worth investigating

• Warning signs of sleep apnea, restless legs, and other overlooked causes

• Evidence-based treatment options to discuss

• A medication, supplement, caffeine, and alcohol review

• Specific questions to take to your next appointment

• A clear framework for determining whether treatment is working

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Sometimes you are hot. Sometimes your heart is racing. Other nights, your mind becomes fully alert even though your body is exhausted. You eventually fall back asleep, but when morning arrives, you feel as though your body never fully rested.

After enough nights like this, the effects follow you into the day. You struggle to concentrate, become more irritable or anxious, crave foods you normally would not reach for, and have less energy to exercise or engage with the people around you. You may start gulping down extra espresso just to function, only to feel more jittery, anxious, and wired by the afternoon.

Many women assume this is stress, aging, or the unavoidable result of having too much to manage. When these changes begin during perimenopause or menopause, your hormones may be contributing. Poor sleep can also intensify many of the symptoms you are already trying to understand.

This is when disrupted sleep becomes a medical issue that requires immediate attention!

Sleep Problems Can Begin Before Your Periods Stop

Menopause is confirmed after you have gone 12 consecutive months without a menstrual period. The hormonal transition begins many years earlier.

During perimenopause, estrogen and progesterone can fluctuate significantly. You may still have monthly periods while your sleep, mood, body temperature, and stress tolerance begin changing.

For some women, disrupted sleep is one of the earliest signs of perimenopause. Research shows that sleep problems frequently increase across the menopausal transition. Hormonal fluctuations, hot flashes, mood symptoms, stress, medications, medical conditions, weight gain and underlying medical disorders may all contribute.

Sleep changes may include:

• Difficulty falling asleep

• Waking repeatedly during the night

• Waking several hours earlier than intended

• Night sweats and waking up cold and clammy

• Feeling unusually alert or anxious during the night, becoming a “light sleeper”

• Sleeping for enough hours but waking exhausted

• Relying on naps or caffeine to function

If your sleep changes are around the same time as your menstrual cycle, mood, body temperature, or other symptoms, please find a clinician willing to listen and act early to investigate and come up with a strategy. That timing might be clinically important.

Estrogen and Progesterone Affect More Than Your Period

Estrogen receptors exist throughout the brain, including areas involved in temperature regulation, mood, cognition, and sleep.

As estrogen fluctuates during perimenopause, some women become more vulnerable to hot flashes, anxiety, mood changes, and fragmented sleep.

Progesterone also has neurological effects. It is metabolized into neuroactive compounds, including allopregnanolone, that interact with GABA-A receptors. GABA is one of the brain’s major inhibitory systems and helps regulate neural calm, allowing for the powering down of the adrenergic system with a shift in balance towards the parasympathetic system - rest and digest.

As ovulation becomes less consistent during perimenopause, progesterone production can become less predictable. This may be part of the reason some women feel completely exhausted while their brains refuse to shut down.

Hormones may be involved without being the entire explanation. That is why sleep problems require a proper assessment instead of assumptions.

Night Sweats Are Only Part of the Problem

The Menopause Society reports that hot flashes affect up to 80% of women and may last an average of seven to ten years. When they occur at night, repeated episodes of heat, sweating, chills, and rapid heartbeat can interrupt the sleep cycle.

You may have little memory of waking repeatedly. You only know that you feel depleted the following day.

Some women develop insomnia without severe night sweats. Others continue sleeping poorly after their vasomotor symptoms improve because insomnia has become an established condition of its own. That is why I believe we need to treat hot flashes as a serious medical condition, deserving prompt attention and prompt action.

The specific nature of the sleep disturbance and its cause influences treatment. Managing hot flashes may help one woman sleep, while another may need treatment for chronic insomnia, sleep apnea, restless legs syndrome, anxiety, thyroid dysfunction, persistent activation of the stress response, medication effects or progesterone deficiency.

In the paid subscriber article, I explain how to identify what may be waking you, which symptoms to track for two weeks, what your clinician should evaluate, and how hormone and nonhormone treatments may fit into the plan.

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Poor Sleep Changes How Your Body Functions

Sleep is an active and absolutely necessary period of neurological and physical restoration. Your brain processes information and consolidates memory during restorative sleep. Your tissues repair, and your immune, cardiovascular, metabolic, and hormonal systems continue regulating themselves.

Chronic sleep deficiency can significantly affect:

• Concentration and memory

• Emotional regulation

• Appetite and food cravings

• Insulin response and blood glucose

• Blood pressure and cardiovascular health

• Immune function

• Physical energy and exercise capacity

• Sexual desire

The National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute links ongoing sleep deficiency with increased risks of health problems like

• obesity

• high blood pressure

• diabetes

• heart disease

• stroke

Inadequate sleep can also interfere with decision-making, memory, emotional control, and the ability to cope with stress.

These effects can compound the symptoms of perimenopause.

Brain fog becomes harder to manage.

Mood becomes less stable.

Hunger and cravings may increase.

Exercise feels more difficult.

Libido may fall or disappear.

Do Not Assume Every Sleep Problem Is Menopause

Perimenopause may be part of the problem, but your clinician should also consider other causes.

Sleep apnea is frequently missed in women because the symptoms may look different from the stereotypical presentation. You may experience insomnia, fatigue, depression, anxiety, morning headaches, or frequent awakenings without dramatic snoring.

Women’s risk for sleep apnea increases during and after menopause. If you wake gasping, have morning headaches, feel overwhelmingly sleepy during the day, or remain exhausted despite spending enough time in bed, ask whether a sleep evaluation is appropriate.

Other possible poor sleep contributors include:

• Restless legs syndrome

• Iron deficiency

• Thyroid dysfunction

• Depression or anxiety

• Chronic pain

• Reflux

• Alcohol

• Caffeine consumed too late in the day

• Prescription and nonprescription medications

• Energizing supplements

• Urinary frequency

• An overactive mind

• Persistent chronic stress

Taking a sleeping pill without investigating the cause provides immediate and temporary relief but will leave the actual problem untreated.

Begin With Better Information

Before your next appointment, track your sleep for at least two weeks.

Record when you go to bed, how long it takes you to fall asleep, when you wake, and what you experience during each awakening. Include sweating, chills, anxiety, pain, urinary urgency, snoring, headaches, and restless legs.

Track your menstrual cycle, medications, supplements, alcohol, caffeine, and how you function the next day.

Do you wake refreshed? Can you concentrate? Are you relying on naps or caffeine? Have you stopped exercising because you are too exhausted?

“I am tired” tells your clinician very little. A detailed sleep record shows the pattern.

Poor sleep during perimenopause and menopause should never be waved away as the price of getting older.

Poor sleep affects your brain, metabolism, cardiovascular system, immune function, mood, physical energy, and sexual health.

Pay attention when your sleep changes. Your body may be giving you information that needs to be evaluated.

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Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources & Further Reading

• The Menopause Society: 2023 Nonhormone Therapy Position Statement

• The Menopause Society: 2022 Hormone Therapy Position Statement

• National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute: Sleep Apnea in Women

• American College of Physicians: CBT-I as the Initial Treatment for Chronic Insomnia

• Menopause and Sleep Disorders: Scientific Review

• National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute: Healthy Sleep Habits

The burden becomes cumulative. In a 2022 CMS survey, nearly half of women with Medicare living in the community reported four or more chronic conditions. I strongly believe women should act before their health becomes a collection of diagnoses managed one appointment at a time.

During these years, blood pressure may rise, muscle may decline, abdominal fat may increase, bone loss may accelerate, and sleep and glucose regulation may deteriorate. A woman’s menopause can influence every one of these systems.

You may still look healthy while working, traveling, caring for others, and meeting every obligation. That tells me very little about whether your body is prepared for the next 20 or 30 years.

The question is brutally simple: Do you want to enter those years with the freedom to live fully, or watch your world become smaller as your health and independence decline?

Health optimization means identifying vulnerabilities early and acting before they become disease, disability, or irreversible damage.

Hormones are one part of that strategy. Leaving them out while a woman’s muscles, bones, sleep, metabolism, cognition, and sexual health decline is incomplete medical care, and poor advice for most women.

What You Will Build With This Blueprint

This guide will help you:

• Establish a meaningful midlife health baseline

• Identify cardiovascular and metabolic risks

• Evaluate muscle, strength, fitness, and body composition

• Protect your bones before a fracture occurs

• Understand where coronary calcium, VO₂ max, and grip strength may add information

• Examine sleep, cognition, sexual health, and menopause symptoms

• Understand where estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone may fit

• Evaluate weight loss without sacrificing physical capacity

• Build a 90-day action and reassessment plan

• Prepare specific questions for a clinician

I want you to come away with this as an informed and empowered participant in your care.

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What you do between 50 and 65 can influence the strength, health, and independence you carry into the decades ahead.

Picture two women at 75.

The first uses a walker. Severe arthritis limits her movement, and she has already undergone one joint replacement, maybe two. She takes medication for high blood pressure, cholesterol, and diabetes. Chronic urinary tract infections, insomnia, persistent pain, and multiple medical appointments consume much of her time.

She is alive, but her world has become smaller, focusing daily on managing health related issues.

The second woman is also 75. She exercises, gardens, travels, participates in her community, and helps care for her grandchildren. Perhaps she is still running a business, writing a book, volunteering, or pursuing work that gives her a sense of purpose. She remains physically capable, mentally engaged, and connected to the people around her.

These are not guarantees or moral judgments. Genetics, illness, socioeconomic conditions, access to care, and circumstances beyond a woman’s control can all influence our health as we age.

But the contrast forces us to confront a question that conventional discussions about aging often avoid:

It is not dying that should frighten women. It is the possibility of spending the final decades of life disabled, dependent, and managing diseases that may have been developing for years.

Paid subscribers can continue reading for the nine areas of health I believe every woman should address now to protect her strength, independence, and quality of life for the decades ahead.

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We Have Been Taught to Fear the Wrong Things

Women have been trained to fear advancing age because of wrinkles, gray hair, changing body shape, and the loss of youth.

I am not particularly concerned about any of those things.

You are not going to look 25 at 65, nor should that be the standard by which your life is measured. I am far more interested in whether you can climb stairs, get off the floor if you fall, carry groceries, travel, think clearly, remain sexually healthy, and continue participating in your own life.

That is the form of longevity worth pursuing.

The numbers should make every woman pay attention. Among American adults 65 and older, 93% report at least one chronic condition, and nearly 79% report two or more. These conditions can shape mobility, independence, quality of life, and how fully you participate in the decades ahead.

The years before those diagnoses appear cannot be treated as irrelevant.

How you arrive at 65 will influence how you live the next 20 years.

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The Years Between 50 and 65 Require Serious Attention

For many women, the period between 50 and 65 includes the menopause transition and the years immediately following it.

This is also when changes may begin appearing in:

• Mood, memory, and mental clarity

• Cardiovascular fitness

• Blood pressure and cholesterol

• Blood glucose and insulin sensitivity

• Fat distribution and waist circumference

• Muscle mass and physical strength

• Bone density

• Sleep

• Sexual and urinary health

The medical system often treats these changes separately. The body does not, nor should you.

A woman may see one clinician for blood pressure, another for joint pain, another for elevated glucose, and another for chronic urinary symptoms. Each clinician may prescribe something for an isolated problem without anyone stepping back to ask what changed, when it changed, and whether these problems are connected.

That fragmented approach may manage isolated disease. It does not necessarily build meaningful health.

Menopause Is Part of the Metabolic Picture

Metabolism is often reduced to how quickly someone burns calories. That definition is far too narrow.

Metabolism includes the enormous multitude of interdependent chemical reactions that allows the body to produce and use energy. These processes support the brain, heart, muscles, bones, immune system, and every other living tissue in the body.

Estrogen interacts with many of these systems. Hormone decline or total hormone loss at menopause does not explain every medical problem that develops after 50, but it should not be treated as a meaningless reproductive event either.

Here is what women are not being told often enough:

Menopause changes more than menstrual periods. It changes the biological environment in which the brain, bones, muscles, blood vessels, and metabolism must continue operating.

Hormone therapy is the most effective treatment for menopausal hot flashes and night sweats. It can also prevent bone loss and fractures while it is being used. For appropriately selected women younger than 60 or within 10 years of menopause onset, The Menopause Society states that the benefit-risk profile is generally favorable when hormone therapy is used for approved indications.

That does not mean hormone therapy is appropriate for every woman, nor should it be presented as a universal longevity medication. The formulation, route, dose, timing, personal history, and individual risk profile all require clinical judgment in both decision to use it, and how it is used and in what formulation.

But automatically dismissing hormones while a woman’s sleep, bone health, body composition, sexual health, and ability to function deteriorate daily is the exact opposite of a thoughtful medical strategy.

Muscle Is Not About Looking Athletic

One of the most important changes women can make in midlife is to stop using body weight as their entire health report card.

A woman can lose weight while losing muscle. Another can remain at approximately the same weight while losing muscle and accumulating more visceral fat around the abdomen. The scale may barely move while her metabolic risk and physical capacity change considerably.

Muscle allows you to stand, walk, lift, balance, recover, and protect your joints. It also contributes to glucose regulation and metabolic health.

Low muscle mass and sarcopenia are associated with functional decline and a higher risk of death.

Cardiorespiratory fitness is another powerful indicator. A large meta-analysis involving more than two million people found that higher objectively measured cardiorespiratory fitness was associated with a substantially lower risk of death from any cause.

This is why I do not want women chasing weight loss without asking a more important question:

What kind of weight are you losing, and are you protecting the physical capacity you will need later?

Bone Loss Often Remains Silent Until It Is Not

A woman can lose bone without feeling it. Osteoporosis may not announce itself until a fracture occurs.

Once bone loss and muscle weakness begin interacting, ordinary activities can become dangerous. A fall, lifting an object, bending incorrectly, or even a forceful movement can have serious consequences when the skeleton has become fragile.

Bone health cannot be separated from strength, balance, nutrition, hormone status, and physical activity. Waiting for a fracture before taking bone health seriously is not prevention.

Longevity Is More Than the Absence of a Diagnosis

Health optimization does not mean forcing every woman toward the same hormone level, body-fat percentage, or laboratory result.

It means understanding the complete clinical picture early enough to act.

I want to know:

• What has changed?

• When did it change?

• Is muscle being preserved?

• Is bone loss occurring?

• Is blood pressure rising?

• Is glucose regulation deteriorating?

• Is sleep being repeatedly disrupted?

• Are menopause symptoms interfering with exercise, work, cognition, or relationships?

• Is the woman becoming less capable even though her routine laboratory results are called “normal”?

The laboratory number is one piece of the clinical picture. It is not the entire woman.

We Need to Move Beyond the Disease-Only Model

Most people have been taught to visit a doctor when something is wrong. The great majority of women and men wait until they have a problem, and believe the absence of symptoms is a great and reliable indicator of well-being. They could not be more wrong!

You develop high blood pressure, so you receive blood-pressure medication. Your glucose crosses the threshold into diabetes, so you receive another prescription. Your joints deteriorate, so you eventually enter the line for surgery, or take OTC pain management such as Aleve or similar as needed every day.

Those treatments may be necessary and valuable. The problem is waiting until disease or disability is firmly established before asking how it developed.

A serious preventive visit should examine more than the absence of an immediate diagnosis. It should consider nutrition, exercise, muscle, sleep, stress, family history, hormone-related changes, social connection, and the environment in which a woman is living.

These factors interact. Treating them as unrelated misses the larger picture.

Reassurance is not the same as an explanation, and a prescription is not the same as a longevity strategy.

Protect the Body You Intend to Live In

Living longer is not enough and should not be the goal.

The real objective is to remain strong enough to participate in your life, mentally clear enough to make your own decisions, and physically capable enough to maintain as much independence as possible.

Ask yourself:

• Can I get off the floor without assistance?

• Can I climb stairs comfortably?

• Am I maintaining or losing strength?

• Do I recover appropriately after exertion?

• Is poor sleep becoming my normal?

• Do I understand my cardiovascular and metabolic risks?

• Have I evaluated my bone health?

• Am I remaining connected to other people and to a sense of purpose?

• Am I waiting for a diagnosis before taking my health seriously?

You cannot control every aspect of advancing age. You can, however, stop treating your future health as something that will take care of itself.

Do not wait until 75 to discover what should have received attention at 50.

Paid Members: Build Your Midlife Health Optimization Plan

Knowing that you should protect your health is not enough. You need to know what to assess, how the pieces connect, and what to discuss with a qualified clinician.

In the Midlife Health Optimization Blueprint, I break this into a practical plan, including:

• The health indicators worth understanding before 65

• Cardiovascular and metabolic assessments to discuss with your clinician

• How to evaluate muscle, strength, fitness, and body composition

• Bone-health screening and fracture prevention

• Where estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone may fit into an individualized plan

• Sleep, cognition, sexual health, stress, and social connection

• Questions to take to a clinician who understands preventive care

• A structured 90-day plan for identifying and addressing your most important health gaps

The objective is not merely to add years to your life but to protect the life within those years.

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Join Me Live: How Do You Protect Your Health and Increase Your Longevity?

On September 11 at 8:30 AM PT / 11:30 AM ET, I will go deeper into the choices, health indicators, and preventive strategies that can influence how you live your later decades.

Everyone is welcome to attend the live session. Once it ends, the recording will be available exclusively to paid and Founding Members.

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Disclaimer:

This Substack is here to educate, inform, and advocate. It is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Nothing in this publication should be taken as personal medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and reading or subscribing to this content does not create a physician-patient relationship with Dr. Mirela Cernaianu.

Hormone therapy and menopause care should be guided by a qualified clinician who knows your medical history, symptoms, goals, and risk factors. Always speak with your own healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication, hormone regimen, supplement, or treatment plan.

Do not use this publication for urgent or emergency medical concerns. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate care.

Please do not post or send personal health information through comments or messages on this platform.

Sources & Further Reading

• CDC: Trends in Multiple Chronic Conditions Among U.S. Adults by Life Stage

• The Menopause Society: 2022 Hormone Therapy Position Statement

• Association of Muscle Wasting With Mortality Risk Among Adults: Systematic Review and Meta-analysis

• Objectively Assessed Cardiorespiratory Fitness and All-Cause Mortality Risk

Living longer is not enough. The real goal is to protect your brain, bones, muscles, metabolism, sexual health, and independence throughout the decades ahead.

Join me live on September 11 at 8:30 AM PT / 11:30 AM ET for a direct discussion about protecting your health and increasing your longevity.

We will look beyond lifespan and discuss what can influence how well you age, including the role of hormones, muscle, bone health, metabolic health, sleep, stress, and the choices you make before a serious problem develops.

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What I Covered Last Month

When Perimenopause Starts Changing Everything

One of the most frustrating parts of perimenopause is that it does not always announce itself clearly.

You may simply realize that your sleep is different. Your energy is different. Your mood, weight, concentration, or ability to tolerate stress may be different.

We started the month by looking at what may be happening when you know you do not feel like yourself anymore.

Read: Why Don’t I Feel Like Myself Anymore?

Paid members can go deeper with:

What to Do When Perimenopause Starts Affecting Everything

Why Stress Can Feel So Different in Midlife

Stress is not just an emotional problem.

It can affect sleep, appetite, blood sugar, blood pressure, cognition, inflammation, energy, and the way you experience hormonal changes.

This month, I created a three-part stress series looking at the broader health consequences of chronic stress and why perimenopause and menopause can change the way your body responds to it.

Read: 10 Ways Stress Is Killing You

Paid members can also read:

Why Stress Hits So Much Harder in Perimenopause

Stress and Menopause: Stop Waiting Until You Are Miserable to Take It Seriously

Where Did My Sex Drive Go?

Loss of libido is common in midlife.

That does not mean women should simply be told that it is normal and sent home.

Hormonal changes may be part of the picture, but sexual health can also involve sleep, medications, vaginal health, relationships, stress, metabolic health, testosterone, and more.

Read: Where Did My Sex Drive Go?

Paid members can continue with:

Low Libido Solutions for Women in Midlife

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Bone Loss Does Not Hurt Until Something Breaks

You cannot feel your bones becoming weaker.

That is one reason osteoporosis can progress quietly for years before a fracture finally exposes the problem.

This month, we looked at why menopause changes the conversation around bone health and why waiting until significant bone loss has already occurred is not a good strategy.

Read: Osteoporosis Is Silent Until Something Breaks

Paid members can access:

The Bone Health Solution Guide

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The information shared here is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individualized medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.