inputs & outputs cannot be binded to 2 different directives/components properties

Eg
```
data = model();
dataChange = output(); // throws because model already emits on the `dataChange` output

userSomething = input({alias 'user'});
user = input(); // throws because userSomething already binds to the `user` input
````

fixes angular#65844

BREAKING CHANGE: The compiler will throw when there a when inputs, outputs or model are binding to the same input/outputs.